What do you think of people who don't remember your special days?

@ritchel (842)
Philippines
October 16, 2012 8:40am CST
If you are a girlfriend of someone who doesn't remember your birthday or anniversary, what would you do?
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8 responses
Harold_ks
@Harold_ks (1673)
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16 Oct 12
It is actually disappointing and sad but sometimes we also have to consider their status in life. Sometimes, their hectic schedules make them forget dates but it doesn't mean that they don't love us. I have actually experienced that but I just extended by understanding. Have a nice day!
ritchel
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
His reason is just he doesn't care about dates. He is not fond of celebrations etc..I feel really sad. He just ignore those things. :(
Harold_ks
@Harold_ks (1673)
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16 Oct 12
I can say that there are really people like that, and what we should do is to remember that it's not the only way to show that we love our partner. There are lot of other ways and let's just focus on them. So even our partners are not fond of remembering dates, they can still show that they love us. While for us who love to remember special dates, then let's still greet them on those dates, and who knows, our partners might later on adapt our doings. Good luck!
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riyauro
@riyauro (6421)
• India
17 Oct 12
I totally agree with harold. There are other ways in which he must be showing his love to you. See that.
akh5665
@akh5665 (22)
• India
16 Oct 12
hi ritchel , If you are special to someone then no matter what ever happens, they will surely remember all your special days. have a great day.
ritchel
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
That's the sad part. He doesn't seem to remember at all. :(
akh5665
@akh5665 (22)
• India
16 Oct 12
in such case , link your special days with whatever the thing remembers often, by which whenever he remembers that thing, he will obviously remember your dates too..
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riyauro
@riyauro (6421)
• India
17 Oct 12
May be he has some serious problem with remembering the dates..What do you think, does he love you apart from not remembering you special days??
riyauro
@riyauro (6421)
• India
16 Oct 12
I think to these people I matter. and it would feel good to know that people remember your special days. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
Raine38
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I will be sad and disappointed of course, but I expect him to have a good reason for forgetting my special day or our anniversary. I would give him a chance to explain, I will hear him out. And I will make sure that his spell of forgetfulness will only happen once.
fatlex06
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
I will be very mad and disappointed as well. How come he forgot about it? What if I will forget about him too, huh? But actually, it didn't happen to me yet. This won't ruin our relationship but this can't be easily forgotten. Every girl will be upset if this happens to them. This is a mortal sin. lol
montevilla
@montevilla (550)
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16 Oct 12
If my partner cannot remember my birthday I should bring her to consult the doctor she might suffering from amnesia, I'm afraid one day even she will forget my name too.. lol Or maybe I should ask her.. she might be busy of something and she just don't have time to think of so many thing.. I will understand her whatever reason she had. Happy mylotting!
kokomo
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
Of course I felt very disappointed when my special someone would forget my special day. If I am very special with him he should knows all the details in my life, either it is just little thing or something special with me.I will feel also I am not that very important person with him.
715550755
@715550755 (6)
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16 Oct 12
angry,that's all ! after all nobody can remember anything all the time.