I am afraid of boys chasing me can i have a mental illness?

No, not really... maybe you are just so focused on your studies.. Boys can wait, love can wait... But you should not abandon your friends just because of that.. If they do start chasing you, you should set them straight at that instant.. that you only want to be friends.

I don't think you have a mental illness. There are some people who are not just comfortable being chased by men. Maybe you just haven't found the right person for you yet. How old are you by the way? If you're still a student, i think that's an advantage.

I am not attractive to guys that chase me either . I cannot believe you never fell in love in school , not even a crush ? I like having boys as friends but as soon as they start to make the move on me , I drop them , because I am no longer comfortable . Maybe you need to like someone , or be the chaser and not the pray lol ... I am simple making suggestions . I think maybe a part of you feel you are doing something wrong if you should allow yourself to fall in love . The way your were brought up could be the reason . You probably not comfortable with your sexuality .

How old r u? I guess you've not met someone you really like. you'll fall in love if you meet someone who like you and you like. but you don't need to alienate someone who chases you, just tell him what you think, if you can't be friends, just say goodbye. so don't warry about it.

Thanks for posting this discussion. Well i do not think that if u are ignoring the guys following u then u are having any mental illness. It is your personal take not to fall in love and that has nothing to do with your mental illness. Those are fond of making relationships and have time to pamper their lovers can fall in love and if u do not like to fall in love then there should not be any issue. What say?