When no friend near you......

I am living with a friend in a foreign land right now but i feel alone because she has her own world. She seems so distant and it's making my heart ache. Thank goodness for the internet connection, I can stay in touch with my friends from my homeland and i could tell them how i feel. They have been encouraging me to stay strong and they keep me company despite the distance. There was a time when i had no friend next to me to talk to. I felt like i was going crazy. So I went to mylot and other sites to find new friends to talk to.

i usually don't feel at ease sharing my concerns with friends except to very trusted ones. hence, if i need to unburden something and there's no real friend around who could truly understand me i resort to prayer and talk to the Lord all my worries, fears and even my euphoria if the subject that i want to share is worth celebrating to.

If no one is around, all I have to do is log-in to mylot and rant or vent out what I feel. Or maybe log in to other social site where I can find any online friend to talk with. If still no one is around- then I will just locked myself inside my room and scream out loud

Firstly what you convey is that when you want to share something desperately,and there is no one to share it with then how will you cope with such a situation.Whenever I find myself in such a situation I got to my blog,rubyroyblogspot.in and write under the heading women -bold and the blunt.When I have finished it I publish my inner thoughts through this blog and relax.

No friends near you? You need to get out and nmake some more. There are always great people out there looking for new friends. You can find them as well. Good luck to you.

I always have a friend in Jesus. Thats the problem, we always forget him in times of happiness and trouble. He is always there for us. He will always understand us. And he will never ever leave us.

hi rohitto why not come to m ylot and let go all your feelinga' and share them with us , as thats what I do and all my dear 'friends here have always helped me in some way to get over my problems. come tell me what is bugging you as an innocent 'bystander here I or others can often help you even if its just to listen to you.thats what I do when I can find no friend to talk to offline.

In my most depressed state, I would just be inside my room writing down how I feel that very moment. It is my own therapy that I do every time I feel like breaking down.

Oh, then i just catch 1 guy and the just chat blah blah...i feel better after that and don't need to share anything with any guy...

Most of the times we people may be alone and it we are the one who need to lead our life. There is no sure that our dear ones will be with us all the time. As the leaves from the trees, some of our dear ones gets detached. So it is very important to manage the situations by ourselves. I am quite sure that it will be manageable by myself but if the situations are out of control I will seek some ones help.

Thanks for posting this discussion. Well i know life is complete without friends as they are only ones with whom u can share all your feelings and thoughts without any inhibitions and limitations. They are the ones upon who u can rest your head and give away your tensions and stress. Without them life would be like an empty can and everything would look gloomy around. What say?

I think I will keep it for myself and not too think about that, but if I must share it or vomit it, I will tell it to mylotters or to my local forums friends..

Not only a friend can help you solve those problems,family members and even yourself sometimes can make through all this by having a good self reliance. Try to make yourself in independent situation I think everyone can manage to help ourselves if we want to.

Hi,Rohitt03011979.I have faced the same problem with you. While, I enjoy this feeling very much. One should have the ability to face loneliness and to deal with his bad emotion. If there are someone listening to you there, you can pour your trouble out to him. If not, you should learn to live with yourself.Good luck.

that is the most painful situation in our life. because no one can filled their place in our heart. and we will not give that room to others.