Can you trust again someone who lied to you?

After someone has lied to you, its kinda hard to gain confidence in them for awhile. I had this problem with my ex husband, it has taken me 3-4 years to believe what he says now. Have a great day there.

yes we can give a chance to then if we know that they have ethics and sentiments.

if someone not being honest with you is the line you don't wan them to cross then move on. don't be so hard on yourself

i think you are doing the right thing. how can you trust someone who lies to you. you won't really know for sure what the truth is. a person who lies to you dosen't have your best interests in mind or respects you. you are doing the right thing.

Telling lies for a good reason is quite OK. Try to find the reason why he had told you so. If you find anything good reason for telling so. You should surely adjust with him.

Yes he lied to you. do you think that breaking up is the final solution you have? I say no. because you never tried to look up at the reason what made him to do so... just give him a chance , if you find a proper reason excuse him for this time, And if you find that he lied to you just to hook up with some other girl then think of the word break up.

breaking up I think is not a good solution. Yes. He lied to you Maybe there is a deeper reason behind that. But you have already break up with him. If you mean what you said and you have the courage live without him despite the fact that you love him, you should move on and live happily. Find someone who would be honest to you. But you can rarely see a guy who would be honest all the time. At some point, he lie, like we did also. We are just humans. But i you still love him and would like be with him again and he stills pursue you, you have to be calm and talk to him. Ask him why he did that and try to understand him and him understanding you. As couples, you have to make up things and try to be honest as possible. I know trust in not there, but try to open your mind to him. I'm not saying that you give your 100% trust but at least believe in him. In that way, he knows that you trust him and every time he lie to you and you are so good to him and so important to him, he will feel guilty when he does it again. Talking, conversing, understanding and loving could make you both a better person and could make your relationship even stronger.

Hi! I'd like to know what your boyfriend said when you asked him about why he lied to you? Has he explained his side? Maybe he did it on purpose just to spite you, knowing you know the password to his Facebook account and for sure you would find out the truth about his goings-on that night. Sometimes boys do that because they don't want to be the one to break up the relationship and so they do things that they know will make their girlfriends angry and break up with them.

If I consider it as a lie I can not. I would lie if I would say: let's just forget about it and go on like it was once before

always ask reason first. then you can decide next step you want to take.

I know what he did to you was really wrong. And I won't tolerate it also. But I don't think that your reason is enough for you to break with him. Because if you really love him, give him a chance for the both of you to settle things up. :)

dear girlthing, theses are all very silly matter . Never take it as a serious matter.once my room mate has stolen money from my wallet. its almost 4 years over. i caught ed him red handed. now also we are friends also he is staying in my home. forgiveness is the best way to keep the friendship and relations

He needs some explaining as to why there is a change of mind. I think, as a partner, we are entitled to know the whereabouts of our partners and so to the other, it is our responsibility to inform. A simple text will do for me. Maybe, there is a valid reason why there is a change. It takes to two to tango in relationship. Don't worry, you can fix that, as long as there is communication between parties. Good luck. Thanks

Did you let him explain himself first before breaking up? Well, everybody deserves a second chance and it's much better that you asked him first did he do that to you. What made him think that lying is a better option? Then feel if he is telling the truth. But if I were in your situation I could give him my trust again but not the same trust that I gave him before he lied. And I will let him suffer from the bad thing that he did. He must suffer the consequences. And at first, if he respects you he should've told you that he attended.

You seem that You love him . yes he had lied to you...No doubt. But it will not be easy for you to break up and leave him...because you seem to fall in love with him. You seem to be a true lover. Because true lover are truthful and wants truthfulness in return. So, try to find out why did he told lie? There can be some reason...which he wants to hide...or he wants to show you he is nice guy( washing clothes). He also can be a liar...who is just a fraud. Tell him that if he repeat that again then you will hate him and leave him. And after sometime test him whether he is truthful or not. you will find whether he has regretted or not. If he is not truthful again....then you know what to do.