Unwanted pregnancies and early pregnancies for women.

I am so against to abortion. The baby shouldn't suffer from the wrong doing of their parents. Unwanted or wanted, it is unjust to abort an innocent child. And there is no one here in this world has the right to kill another.

For me abortion would be totally no. I would indeed never choose to have an abortion.I was shockingly offered an abortion in 2007 at 36 weeks pregnancy. I said no way and let my disabled son be born. He is now 5 years old and he goes around in his wheelchair. He had catheter care. He has deformed feet and hip problems. I take him to many medical appointments and sometimes he has operations. Sadly in some countries abortion is allowed and my home country is one of those. In my home country abortion is permitted up to 24 weeks pregnancy. An abortion pill could be taken up to 9 weeks pregnancy. After that it could be a medical or surgical abortion. It seems so horrible some ladies abort their baby. I wish they would have their unwanted baby adopted into a loving family. I am against 98% of abortions. I know that sometimes an abortion happens to save the life of the lady and that is sad. However 2% of abortions should happen if there are severe reasons like that. Then most abortions could be stopped.

Legalizing abortion doesn't mean anyone who perform it is justified and free from sinning. Abortion is one of the most debated issues between human law and churches. In my opinion, regardless of faith/religion/belief- abortion without good reason is a crime. A good reason I wrote here- because there are cases that we must consider why abortion has and must be done.

We can't judge other women if they will think of it somehow its not us but them, there might be so many things around them that let them decided for abortion. I do respect them if they think life will be better if they will do it specially if it will only cause a lot of problems and complications. Though in my case i keep m daughter no matter what even if i lost my job, even if my boyfriend left me, even if my friends nor best friends left me, i have nothing but my family, though i used mylot to talk with and burst out the pain i have. I can't cry with my mother or family coz i don't want them to tell me its my fault coz it was ended my fault. I only cry to myself though i fight for it coz im thinking of my baby. Then lucky probably GOD is helping me by keeping my baby as i was able to earned a lot online getting almost ten thousand of income every month enough for my pregnancy and delivery though those site was now gone aside from mylot, then after i gave birth just 2 months i found better job with high paying salary more than enough for me and my baby's need. GOD is so kind so if were those girls, i will rather keep the baby if they want GOD to be there side and he will never leave us.

women face many problem in their life some time when she wants to become pregnant she try but not pregnant some time the tinager girls are pregnant due to some cruel man due to rape. In such case if girl are minor abortion is not problem but after marriage if the women pregnant and wants to abortion only due to girl child or unwanted preganancy this is not good. If you dont want then take the precaution previously. Still some mad man forced to their wife for abortion only because of in her stomach the girl child is born. Such type of man should punished. I hate those man. If wants child but no borning due to some disease then adoption is good process.

I am against abortion. No one has the right to kill an unborn child.

I don't judge and I think it is a very difficult and personal choice. I would never advice a woman to get an abortion but I would tell her of my experiences with unexpected pregnancy and how my life turned out and how much my unexpected daughters added to my life. I would tell them how I raised them all alone and how well they turned out even though we struggled quite a bit along the way. I would tell how bad it felt to lose an unplanned child at 4 months along...even though it was not through abortion and it took me a bit to accept the pregnancy. In the end, it has to be her decision. I would never tell someone else what is right for them or assume that what was right for me would be right for them. I can only tell what I actually know from my personal experience and offer moral support in whatever they choose. I am glad that it is legal and that women can make their own choice in the matter. Making it illegal won't stop it from happening. We'll just go back to the days when underground abortions were performed and often not in sanitary and safe conditions. For those against abortion, you should encourage women who are scared that they can't do it rather than put them down.