i dont know if my boyfriend loves me
@reginatanslife (85)
Philippines
13 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Oct 12
Does he really listen to what you say? Does he act genuinely happy to see you when you are reunited after being apart? When you are together does he put your needs first. Does he lend his support when you are upset. does he understand when you are in a bad mood? Is he truly happy for you when you have good news? And sad when you have bad news? Does he Want to make you happy? If so, he loves you.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
he is your boyfriend... Right? I tthink before that he does find you attractive and courted you and you went steady... So only you can say what has changed in him that made you feel now that he probablydoes bot love youweare in no positi aen to tell you if he doed or not not love you because we were not even part of that relationship.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Oct 12
You sound very young or maybe you are just not very mature. If you don't know the answer to your question then how do you expect total strangers to know??
A relationship must be based on two people who communicate on all levels. Maybe the two of you are just hanging out together, maybe you two are f*ck buddies...we don't know. Maybe it's too soon for the two of you to know each other well enough, maybe you just want to be loved and it doesn't matter who it is. Maybe you are just wanting to be in a love relationship...i.e. in love with the idea of being in love.
Talk to the guy.
@bryanwmc (1051)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 12
I can be cruel or kind...that is the choice you have given me.. if you want signs or miracle..1st i pretend to be cruel and say he loves you..then pluk off another leaf and he loves you not...ten ..tell you what ..why dont you go pluck a flower with a lot of petals and play that ..love me ,love me not game. actually , jokes aside,
why dont you go by the famous woman intuition,and get a sense whether your bfriend loves you or not,seriously, body language also can display a lot of things the person dont want to voice out.! it is easy to tell how another person feels about us just observing the body language whenever in each other's presence.can feel it usually.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
19 Oct 12
If your boyfriend spends time with you, helps you with problems you may be facing, and does things for you then he probably loves you. How long have the two of you been dating? You could ask him if he loves you and then you will know it straight from him. Hope everything works out well for you and your boyfriend.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I am more than willing to help you out. But I think you ought to tell us a background of your situation.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
I think you have top site instances so we could tell if your boyfriend loves you or not, regina.
There are a lot of ways to tell if a boyfriend loves you truly or not.
@hanSquall (35)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
You know, you personally can feel if your bf love you, it will appear to his attitude towards you. make him frankly tell what is the real deal.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Oct 12
It is hard to say if he loves you. Ask yourself first what makes you think he doesn't? What do you need for kind of behaviour or prove he does love you? I could say if he is caring about you, showing affection or is attentive he does love you but the thing is these things we do for our pets as well. Also there are many kinds of showing love plus we can love in different ways. Mostly we think someone is not loving us since we expect other ways to prove it. So ask yourself first what you need and next make a list and if you are still not sure ask him.
@soorajsrs7srs (636)
• India
19 Oct 12
the one and only way i am thinking is that you have to ask directly to him.