I NEED A GROOM..........A DECOY GROOM anyone?????????? :D

Philippines
October 19, 2012 9:11am CST
hi mylotters, I was talking to a friend when she mentioned this super duper ever loyal suitors I had but he is already had a girlfriend but still he is trying to hope that there will be a chance for the two of us which I think possible after a decades maybe He mentioned that her girlfriend is trying to open up about settling down but it seems he is not ready yet and he told me that he will just get married after me wooooaaahhhh......of course I don't take it seriously but he mentioned this many times before I don't have a boyfriend but he knows that I am in a Long Distance Relationship I need to lie about it cause he will not keep distance to me though he is harmless. So I think to keep him away I need to get married and since I don't have a boyfriend I need a DECOY GROOM so anyone? hahaha! Just thinking about it cause what if he is serious at least I am prepared about it hahahha! have a great weekend ahead everyone happy mylotting
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8 responses
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
wow, so you are ready for the wedding march? did any prince from Jaipur ever asked you to be his wife?
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
LOL....actually he is not a prince but a KING from Rajasthan I need a decoy groom so the wedding march will be all fake also miss yah
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
A fake wedding with a KING?
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Oct 12
Raja, So, he is a king...I am sure he has a lot of money,let him waste his money
lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Why not try the ever loyal suitors of yours maybe he is really the right man for you. Or else you will end up to be an old maid. How I wish not witches need to multiply.
lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
It is bad idea bhaby since good witches are now endangered and we must multiply, since we the other co witches are already not qualified to multiply.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
hi lyn, Hahaha!I am needing a decoy groom to made him stay away from me Well being an old maid witch is not a bad idea at all
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bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
well I can be an old maiden with lot of little witches with different races
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myfb2009
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 12
Bhaby, pity to you that you have to find a decoy groom to solve your problem. Don't you have a much better idea in solving your recent problem? How about telling the truth that you are not interested to have a serious relationship with him? Maybe he will back off after you have a serious discussion with him. Finding a decoy groom is quite risky nowadays. Better be careful and stay in safe.
myfb2009
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 12
Happy to hear at last he is not bothering you anymore. Are you showing your fangs to make him stay away from you?
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
hahaha!I think that what attracts him my FANGS
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
16 Nov 12
hi myfb, I already told this guy a thousand times before but he don't want to give up oh well at least he is not bothering me this days thanks for the response happy mylotting
meowchie
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
hahahaha will you be my wife then? XD lol! that's quite funny! By the way, why not give him a chance? yayy! sounds like he is truly madly deeply in love with you :)
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
hi meow, Hahaha!it will not be legal here in our country thanks for the offer Well cause he is already have a girlfriend and even how much I tried before I can't feel anything but only friends feelings thanks for the response happy mylotting
aliahnicole69
@aliahnicole69 (231)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
Hi Bhaby, I understand your situation :) So the only thing i can do is to help you; first give me appropriate qualification for this "groom" to be. Secondly; the family background you need. thirdly; the security you want to have9insurance,health cards,bank accounts) fourthly; the religion or beliefs and lastly;hmmmm its up to you :)
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
hi aliah, I really appreciate a help well I am not choosy and easy to please He must be a physically fit got an abs, six packs stands about 6 feet not so dark He should not have any genetics problem mind and body Financially stable got a cars, rest house, residence house and few businesses Religion????I don't care as long as he will not care my religion I want someone who can say YES to me most of the time thanks in advance
curlyghe
@curlyghe (19)
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20 Oct 12
First, you have to be sure that he's really interested, I mean really interested with you and is really serious because it would be too embarrassing on your part if you assumed that he is when he is not. Then, if he is, you can be seriously talk to him that your relationship with him is just plain friendship and nothing more. There is no harm in being honest but there will be more trouble when being dishonest. If you will find a decoy groom, you are just involving another person you might hurt because you are going to use him. Besides this, you are putting yourself in a complicated situation. There is no win-win situation here. For sure, you'll get hurt also. Also, what's in it for the guy who will pretend? I hope this will help...
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
hi curly, I am not serious about it but this idea cross my mind I already talk to the guy many times I lost counting already thanks for the response welcome to mylot
Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Oct 12
hi bhabycatch oh my a long time I thought I saw a funny movie about a girl with decoy groom cause she wanted this other guy to leave here alone but in the end they fell in love with each other and actually got married for real.well I am a female and aged at that so I cannot be t he groom he he hope someone can lend you some help or better y et sport a big fancy looking ring and wave it around"I am engaged so lay off Mr."I did this once when a gu y I did not really like kept coming on even though he knew I was engaged. so I got this authentic looking fake diamond ring and he did back off.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
hi hatley, Wow!really? well I am not sure if I can find a decoy groom who will fall in love with me for real Engagement rings are not enough there are men who doesn't know how to quit thanks for the response happy mylotting
viju0410
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
20 Oct 12
Hi bhaby, There are many movies with fake groom & bride etc (lot of bollywood stories u might find) and i really hope you get at least 10 rings (or each fingers). hey, show him the photo of one of the hunks of bollywood - why not John Abraham??? hahhaha happy lotting and happy sunday too...
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
hi viju, Hahaha!well John Abraham is not a bad idea at all 10 rings on my fingers Can you tell me a movie with a decoy bride/groom so I can watch it maybe I will learn something from it happy mylotting