What do you like most as a married woman?

@arystine (1273)
Philippines
October 20, 2012 6:27am CST
Early this year, I got married to the man of my dreams. Though it hurts that I have to leave my mom and brother, what makes the pain bearable is the happiness that I feel each time I wake up next to the man that I love. and coming home to find my husband waiting for me, ready to give me a hug and to forget the exhaustion and stress from work. I gave up a lot when I got married but i was compensated with a good man, a loyal husband. Can you fellow myLotters share what you like most as a married woman?
6 responses
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
20 Oct 12
Hi, Congrats on your marriage and also a wonderful husband. Dear, i am proud to be a women and i love to respect womenhood too. Now your question is what i like most as a married woman - i like everything in the married life (would like to minus the hard times we had together - but the teachings out of it is also important) - being a wife, being a mom, being a daughter in law, being an aunt for someone, being a sister-in law,a friend and advisor for an elder sil and much more. so just love yourself first so everyone start loving you too. take care.
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Thanks for the response. I even appreciate the hard times be because it made our relationship stronger. I am looking forward to being a mother. :)
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
22 Oct 12
Hi, That's going to be wonderful. Best of luck and good wishes too. Yeah, hard times do make our relationship stronger and those times have also helped me in know other persons thru their attitude/ behavior. wihsing you all happy times ahead...
@GemmaR (8517)
20 Oct 12
I am not married at the moment, however I am in a long term relationship and we act as though we are married so I suppose that I am still able to answer this question to an extent. I think that the thing that I like the most about being with somebody is that you know that there is always going to be someone who is there for you when you need them. I feel safe with my partner, and that is something that I was never able to experience when I was on my own so it is certainly a good thing. I hope that we stay together for a long time to come because I am very happy with him.
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
That is the priceless feeling, knowing that someone is always there for you. :) Thanks for the response!!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 12
iam unmarried man.. but i feel you will have a different situation when you are still living in your parents home and unmarried it`s good when you get a loyal husband..
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Thanks for the response. :) Yes, what I am thankful is that I married a loyal man. He is very devoted to me and I pray that he will remain that way for the rest of our lives.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Nov 12
Again, congratulations! But what do you mean "you gave up a lot"? Are you still practicing? I think you deserve to be happy, and from the looks of things (from this discussion at least), I think you are!
@seemared (771)
20 Oct 12
As u said marriage was a huge break...though the whole thing was arranged we both were enjoying the companionship...I was able to enroll for a job and earn myself some money..my parents were very much against the idea...I made quite a lot of friends and even allowed me to hang out with his knowledge..life has been wonderfull ever since then...though should mention that he was liberal enough to put some of my dirty fantasies into reality..h ones which I cannot share with my neighbours...life has been good and I never felt bad at trying such fantasies as we were both lokking forward to try them until we decided to setle down and have a settled family life..
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Yes, it feels that way.. That life has been good since then. :) Thanks for the response!!
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
20 Oct 12
Congratulations! I am also a newly-wed, but it's been over a year since that day and I can fully relate to what you said. I also made a lot of sacrifices for this marriage: I have to quit my job at the government, a very stable and high-paying one, and I am about to leave the country that I have spent and built my life on. But I have no regrets because time and time again, my husband has proven himself to be worthy of all these, and more. He is not perfect, not even close, but he is a very good man and a very good provider. He even understands and can take my childishness and tantrums. We've been friends for a long time and I have never felt any happier than being married to one of my best friends.
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Thanks for the response. That's so great!! You've been best friends for such a long time and the two of you ended up being together. Yes, there are a lot of sacrifice, but it's worth it.. My husband is not perfect, no one is.. But he is the answer to all my prayers, he is the man with the characteristics that I have been looking for in lifetime partner.