I feel to lonely..:(

Romania
October 20, 2012 1:10pm CST
I broke up with boyfriend one month ago, and since then I have been feling very awfull! this feeling isn't permanent and I feel in majority of time that I'm lonely and I need a lot of affection! I don't know what to do! I don't want to conciliate with him!I tried finding someone else, but this wasn't a solution..maybe I miss my ex! Please, need advices!
4 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
21 Oct 12
Most of us have experienced break-ups a couple of times, and it does tend to make us feel lonely and vulnerable. Give yourself time to heal, it will not happen overnight. Surround yourself with good friends and positive people; engage in activities that you which you know you will enjoy without making you remember him and your time together. It is okay to be sad and mourn for the loss of what was once beautiful, but you don't have to be sad and lonely for long.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Finding someone else is not really the best solution. You will just hurt others feeling or you might be in trouble for doing so. I suggest that you give yourself some space and try to mingle with your friends. keep yourself busy with other things to avoid thinking your ex. Later the feeling will subside and you will find peace and happiness. Maybe the right person will come along...just wait for the right time.
@GemmaR (8517)
20 Oct 12
I am sorry to hear that you broke up with your boyfriend, and unfortunately this can be one of the hardest times in our life when we break up with somebody who we loved because of the fact that we had got so used to them being a part of our life. One of the things that you really do need to do is to make sure that you are keeping yourself busy as this means that you're less likely to think about the person who you've lost. Take some time to get to know yourself again, and I am sure that you will be able to move on and be very happy.
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
20 Oct 12
Hi Aitul13, It happens with most of us and only time can heal the wounds, please don't be alone, try to be with your friends and family and be involved in outdoor activities, you'll be fine in a few months. Good luck for your future..