You're the cause of jealousy!

For me loosing a friend or letting go is not the right thing to do. If you are the cause of jealousy of his girlfriend, you can have like a little space so the girl won't be jealous anymore. Or you can actually invite the girl to join your hang outs. the three of you can go out and let her realized that nothing is between the two of you. I've been to that kind of situation. The only difference is that nobody knows that we are in a relationship, then she has a friend, they are very close to another, they eat together.and they even talk anything under the sun. i one day, i was not able to control my emotion, I approached the guy and informed him that we are on or in a relationship and I am jealous with him. he was surprised and my partner heard about the confrontation that I've done and it affects our relationship. I understand the girl in the siatuation. she has the right to feel it. maybe you can give a space to one another or if not possible, the three of you can go out.

This sounds like a horrible situation to be in and what do you do for the best. I personally don't think that you should lose your best friend because of what he means to you this girl will just have to realise that she can't come between your special relationship and hopefully she will get the message. Situations like this are always painful because you don't want to hurt people but sometimes you have to so you just go with your heart. Good luck hope it works out ok

Some people just don't realize that a boy and a girl can be close with one another without an intimate relationship between them. I, too have been in this similar situation in high school. A former boyfriend of my close friend became my close friend , too when my friend left for Japan. I never felt he showed anything unusual towards me to think that he was interested in me. And similarly, I never thought of him special other than just a friend. In 2009, when we had a High School reunion, of course the main topics of discussions were our high school life. A lot asked me if that guy became my boyfriend. I mean, duh?! He was just a friend all these years.

Hello Daisy, it is hard to make an immature listen, especially a very jealous one. But what you had with your friend is special. Let him decide for it. Don't make any move to destroy the friendship. Just ignore the girlfriend as long as you know that your intention of being a friend is true.

You are going to severe a friendship over a jealous girlfriend? Pwee, if she's such a good girlfriend she should be able to understand and should be more trusting. However, you and your friend should know your limits too. Even if nothing is going on between you, it is best not to create situation that would cause suspicions. He already has a partner and he should also consider the feelings of his girlfriend. So this means that you are not the only one supposed to take action. talk among the three of you to come up with a solution and reach an understanding. Don't complicate things

People always think these kind of things. I once had a young friend (male) stay a few weeeks here. And all my family thought we had something going. We didnt. Why cant people just be friends anymore??

To me if a friend doesn't believe in me then that person is not much of a friend. If you have a good relationship with this person I wouldn't let anyone cause problems. You know the truth and that is what is important. If others have some problem with it let them. They are not good friends.

I am friends with a guy who has just started seeing a girl, and she doesn't like it when we go out together. We have told her that we have been friends for ten years, and there is no way that I am going to change that now just because she doesn't like it. She should trust the fact that we have never had feelings for each other and she should trust him not to cheat on her. If she doesn't trust him enough to think that he wouldn't cheat then chances are they shouldn't be in a relationship anyway because he can't be the right person for her.

If i were to be selfish, you shouldn't let go of your friend just because his girlfriend is jealous of your relationship. First of all she should know from the very start that your relationship are very platonic. If she couldn't accept that then she's the one who should find somebody else. It wouldn't be fair to your friend if you stay away from him just because the gf is jealous. However, if he asked you a favor to stay away for awhile, then, by all means, leave him alone.

Daisy such things are common among friends of your age. mainly due to jealousy. just ignore. this will be my stand on such matters. however you know more about him.

Why is that school friend has to do in the decor? For what I see here, when you getting along well with someone, you share everything with that person and everything is alright don't tell me that you have nothing else going for you too good friend that is the way good relationship begins and leads to marriage. That is the way it began with my "husband".

If I know that there's nothing wrong with what I am doing, then I sure as heck don't owe anybody any explanation. Her girlfriend's got to realize that she is not the only girl in his bf's life: he's also got sisters, cousins, aunts, his mom, and other female friends. Me explaining this to her or to anyone might even be taken the wrong way. So better say nothing, you will never be misquoted that way. As an added measure, I will avoid being too close to my friend from now on. I will never ignore him or let our friendship die out just because someone is too suspicious. But I will lessen the time we spend together or even share. Just to show some sort of respect to the insecure girlfriend.