Am I overreacting?!
By B0rn2bshort
@B0rn2bshort (95)
United States
October 20, 2012 9:50pm CST
The other day I bought kfc dinner cuz I don't feel like cooking so I ate some and left half of the other chicken to eat later cause I get hungry quicklyr. My cousin is to come in and see the kfc bag and ask " no more chicken?" And I told him no cause it was the truth I had only half of a chicken left. So a couple minutes later he went in the box and saw the half of chicken and started eating it! I look at him and asked " ow could you do that?... That is my dinner you eating"
His reply " I thought you said no more chicken?" My reply " well there isn't anymore just a half that I was eating and it's my dinner you can't be eating it"
His reply " this is piece of bone" My reply " well if its bone so why u eating it then? Are u a dog?"
And he just stood there laughin still eating my chicken. You guys don't know how pissed I was I really wanted to give him some curse words out of this world but I had to respect my elders cause he's older than me. The fact is its my dinner, he had no right , I even told him it was and he didn't care. The worst part about it he didn't even ask! He just put in his hands in my box...god knows if his hands were clean cuz u can't trust guys and their hand .. And just stood their eating it. I wouldn't have mind that he asked maybe I would have given it to him but why the hell would anyone eat a chicken someone else was already was.
I so mad still am cause it's a matter of respect. I wouldn't do that to someone and I don't expect anyone to do that to me. H didn't even sow no remorse and has yet to even say sorry!
What d u guys think..am I overreacting?
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4 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I perfectly understand how you feel. I mean, that seem to be a small thing to argue about or to get mad about but RESPECT should have been considered. Some people who are close to us seem to ignore this word sometimes, They always assume that everything is alright.
@B0rn2bshort (95)
• United States
21 Oct 12
True.. I know what you say but the argument wasn't even about the chicken. What I made a big deal about is the fact that he didn't get my permission and totally disrespected me. I really care if its small or big situation respect is respect. I even said to him " you always go on about respect and u just totally disrespect me there, I can't have respect for you wen u doing bs like that"
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
What you've done is only an ordinary action. It is very normal to feel that way. I understand how you feel about the situation. I also hate people who use my things without any permission. I felt so disrespected on that.It would be fine with, you just have to notify me.
@Harold_ks (1673)
•
21 Oct 12
There are really times that we are having an unexpected visitor so sometimes we have no choice but to offer them what food we have. Sometimes we really have to sacrifice not to eat just to offer them something to show hospitality. It will be depends on the visitor if he will accept or just say no thanks.. But sometimes, when your visitor is your relative or someone close to you, the tendency is he will feel at home and just grab a food he will see. And that is what happened to your case. Well, just let it pass and just cook or buy a new one, he's your cousin anyway. Have a great day!
