Can their be total trusts.....

I would like to comment on the third party issue. It is very hard to resolve anything when a third party is involve. Even the slightest disagreement cannot be resolve when another person is dragged into the couples issue. Their can be no trust when a their party is involved

If this happend Id think they dont have a good relationship. I lived through this for 11-12 years. I know. its not fun.

I think that you can trust someone completely in life, but you have to make sure that you do really trust them and you aren't just saying that. I know that my partner would never do anything to hurt me, and I appreciate the fact that I am very lucky to have found a man who is as good as him in my life. I always feel sorry for people who are in relationships with people who they don't trust, as I feel that this must be something that is very draining for them as it must be horrible not to be able to relax when your partner isn't where you can see them.

That depends on every individual person. If the wife is a nagger expect a nagging each time the husband comes home late or ask permission to hang out with friends. And this nagging also create a problem and argument if the husband is also temperamental. Therefore, it depends on how couples understand each other and how deep is their love to each other. Trust and honesty matters most in every relationship.

When you have the trust in your partner see that with that trust you never try to jumble by fighting if your partner comes late home from party. If such incidence happen again and again then there is surely that it may lead to big fight and some time it may lead to divorce also.

I am not that kind of a wife,thank god! But I was a long time ago. With my ex bf. he would go out and stay all night with a friend and I know there were girls at that party wherever he went. I didn't want to share him with anyone so when I would see him again I would be in his face demanding to know where he went and y this and y that. It was crazy. I was crazy to do that to him. So in this marriage I don't do that to my husband. If he wants to do something with his friends or go fishing or do whatever he didn't have to come ask for my permission. He's a grown man and he's responsible too. I think that if a woman gets angry at her man for doing anything they should check in to see a shrink or go to some kind of counseling. For real! A woman who does that to a man is making him feel small and belittling him. Men don't like to feel that way. Ppl not just men are going to do whatever they feel like doing and I think it's best to let them do it. It'll be even better if they do it together. I understand that some people like being told what to do and how and so forth and that's not a bad thing. Do it but be smart about it! THis is what I do. I put myself in my husbands shoes. And then I rethink a lot of things. And I ask myself this what would Jesus do? Yes I am weird but that's me! Life is too short to always be mad at someone. Just tell him how u feel and get over it!! Ull feel better. Ppl need space and men are no different. Like in my marriage if he wants to go somewhere, he asks but he doesn't have to. I always tell him I'm NOT his mother and e doesn't need my permission to do anything. He finds this weird and maybe even odd that I don't get mad with him about things like that.

I think that there can be total trust between a couple there just are a lot of insecurities people have because there are emotions like jealousy and possession of thinking that you're partner should only be spending time with you. Unfortunately not everyone is an incredibly trustworthy person and that is why some partners haven't been able to trust their lovers completely. Another reason that people don't trust their partners fully is because perhaps that two parties in the relationship don't fully love each other.

Wives having this reaction would mean two things. It is either lack of trust or that the wife feels she is being denied with the same freedom that his husband is enjoying.

i think that once you get married you should be and always committed to it. There are times that you have to give up all the bad habits that you've been doing before. Now that you have your own family, try to be more focused on them. About trust, well, i think that giving your trust to someone is not that easy, especially if this person is a worst liar of all time. LOL. Well anyways, i think that trust is one way for your relationship to work out.

I believe those relationships that don't fight are seemingly living in a perfect world. Our partners and us are totally different people, different preferences and different point of views. That's why we tend to have fights almost all the time. Fights regarding third parties are like tape recorders, as what you have stated, . I believe you are right. I hope that is a only a kind of jealousy issue and not something else. When it comes to trust, that should be earned. As a part of a couple, we need to do our part like showing that we are true to our partner, like fulfilling simple promises, that would go a long way, I believe. Also, we need to trust our partners. Either way, that is so vital in a relationship. Good luck and thanks.

Hi friend, trust is important in a married life and both of the couples must have a good trust and understanding with each other to have a happy marred life. But most of the times. the problems mentioned by you are arising in lot of families and they will lose their peace due to it

If a man truly loves a woman 100 % or 90 % , he won't do a thing that will hurt her woman. He will try to avoid those things . He will no longer goes out and seek happiness and company of others. Wife is there , she's enough to be a source of happiness and a perfect company. When you are having a pure love to the person , you turns to be selfless. Always thinking welfare of the partner , and putting aside own self interest.