what you will do when you found your wife or love cheat you ????

If i found out that my husband cheating on me i will leave him instantly. I have been through lot of pain in my ex boyfriend who cheated and lied to me and i do not want to happen it again. I am just glad that my husband is very faithful and i know he will never do anything to ruin our marriage.

A very good question, even though i have not experienced it so far. . Anyway, if such things happen to me and my love, i would be really angry, but i will keep my cool. Suppose we are still not married, i would just act like an ordinary person and respect her decision. But, i will never give up, i will still pursue her, make her love me, listen to her in every word she say, and treat her as the most special person in my life if i love her very much. I think that is what i will do. Good day!

Ill do myself a favor, I will dump him as soonest as possible.

i have experienced the same thing before, my partner was like a best actor in front of me, i trusted him so much because when he talks and acts in front me, he is really nice and talks so true that i have never doubted him or anything until one time i accidentally found out that he is contacting someone or is having a girlfriend in another place while we were together. I felt really bad and sad, i gave him a second chance because he said he was sorry and will never do it again, but then for the second time he did it again and that's when my trust for him was not the same anymore, and it is really hard if we cannot trust our partner. he is a liar and would invent stories, i know up to now he keeps on doing this kind of thing with the one he is with which is cheating and i cannot take this kind of attitude and personality in a relationship. at first it was hard for me but i think it was for the best and better that i must let go and move on. it is really important for me to have true love and respect in a relationship because i am the same thing and it would be unfair on my part if my partner is a liar and a cheater.

Ahh....me ...honestly my revenge will be tripled that what he/she did to me......i will make them suffer more than hell...i will both of them rot to hell..both of them.....i will not make them happy...REVENGE for the Loyal Wifes........

i hate the cheats , i will leave him now, don't let myself hurted , and sorrow, because i want a honesty man for my lover, i want a happy life without cheat, thank you for sharing this discussion, my dear friends have a nice day , what you say ?

How come you only ask: what will you do when your WIFE is cheating on you? Mainly men cheat. Anyway.. if my husband wants to cheat on me he should do that. He knows I will kick him out. I am not interested in wasting my time, energy and money in a person like that. It's his life so he can do with it what he wants. His behaviour will only prove who he really is.

If this will ever happen to me? I'll probably keep it to myself and ask what went wrong. I'll try to pretend I know nothing and try to deduce the real reasons for her infidelity. I will try my best effort to let her see that I truly love her and give her time to mend her ways and if all my effort fail then I will confront her and ask her if she want to be free which I will surely give to her.

for me I really dont know if I am in the middle of that situation I love my husband as well as i know and i feel that he loves me more than I deserve. If ever that will happen I will weigh the situation first, let him explain and see what will be my decision, Most of the time men cheated on their wives because the wife stops being a wife when they have children, no more time for their husband. for Me, I am going to cross the bridge when i get there..

Cheaters are losers for me. So the time that I personally caught him cheat automatic I will cry and ask why and maybe I will come after them both and pull the girls hair until all have fallen. And to my partner who cheated me I will slap his face until it will turn red. That is not enough for all the pain they've cause me. Those bruises will heal but the pain and hurt they've given will never be gone until I die. 3:)

I will get angry at first and get into a serious and heated argument with my partner. Secondly i would break up with him and delete him completely from my life for good.

I am so sorry about that. I have experienced being cheated. But he admitted that it is a one time mistake. It's a long time friend coming along out of the blue, getting out of hand, and it happpened. I don't get mad, people make mistakes. We don't know the situation at that time. Maybe it's not him to start, maybe it's her who pursue first. Maybe the embiance, place that gave such opportunity. He admitted, he was sorry, and he still loves me even better. So no harm, I forgive and forget. In your situation, first know is there anything wrong in your marriage? Is there something that already going on between the two of you. Does the cheat happen still on going? Or just a one time cheat. Confront her, and ask her about all of these. When you get the answer, think about it, does it make sense? Look into her eyes, and her expression, is it a sencere expresion of sorry. Do you still love her? If yes, then live goes on, she promised not to cheat again, that's the end of it. But if it still continues, than it is the end. I know it is not easy to forgive and forget, but people make mistakes. That's human.