uncle is making me think more
By kaeirole
@kaeirole (668)
Philippines
October 22, 2012 4:57pm CST
got an uncle (not blood related, he's the husband of my mom's sister)..whenever he's here in the country (because he and my aunt are already living in US) he never failed to share his blessings to us..he gave us money, especially me, to let me enjoy life..
but now is different..i'm in a scary situation right now..he's in US right now..but i don't know why he keeps on sending me money..i'm always surprise because i wasn't expecting about it..and i wasn't asking him for it.and he doesn't me to tell anyone..and that scares me a lot..and now, even if i don't have classes because it's semestral break here, he still sent some amount for me..
:( this is really freaking me out..
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11 responses
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
23 Oct 12
that is good because at the end of the day you can learn more and grasp for sure
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
This also makes me think. But the fact that he doesn't want you to tell to anyone about the money, well, i think that is something. I don't know the whole story about that but i think you should tell to your parents. Here's my question, when he was at your place, did you notice something about him? i mean different about him when you are around?
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
hi kaeirole,
Are you thinking that this so called Uncle of yours has intentions on you?
Well you better tell your parents they have the right to know about it
happy mylotting
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Well that would be suspicious by now if he still keeps on sending money to you with no valid or particular reason. Better ask him why? Better not accept it because he might expecting in return when you keep on accepting the money. Try to bring it up and tell to someone like parent, family or friends that could help you regarding this matter.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Oct 12
Yes you should follow the advice of our friends here. Tell your parents about it, especially your mom, peace to the fathers!
If the motive is good, why would he prevent you from telling others about this thing?
Have a nice day!
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
23 Oct 12
Hi friend, why your uncle is sending money to you? Ask him for the reason. I think he is having a lot of affection with you, however sending a lot of money without any reason is not a good thing. What do you do with this money? Don't spend them and save it. May be he will ask the money in the future. Be careful
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@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Safety first. I would agree that you bring the matter to your mom. If he really mean well, then there should be no problem. You could also ask him why he doesn't want the others to know. :)
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@alberello (4752)
• Italy
23 Oct 12
Well, jokingly talking about I can tell you: I wish to have an uncle like yours?
Well, anyway, never mind, this was only a joke, rather ask you, you just can not understand why your uncle continues to send money? Maybe it will do well, knowing that you are a needy family! (this is just my guess).
You also mentioned the fact that though he is not a direct relative of yours, why do you think that behind he can plot a second point?
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Just the benefit of the doubt,maybe, he is just generous to provide you what you need. If you want, you may tell your aunt about this. I believe she has the right to know about the money that your uncle is giving.Hope everything will be sorted out. Good luck.Thanks
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
23 Oct 12
I wouldn't tell this to my aunt because I know that this will instantly cause some misunderstanding between. I will, however, tell this to my mom. It is kind of suspicious especially if he hasn't got any good reason for sending you money. I would ask my mom for an advice or two, maybe to ask her help in making sure this will not get out of hand.
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
23 Oct 12
Explain your concerns to your family. Seems to me like someday he will want something in return. Be careful there.
