relationships

United States
October 22, 2012 10:04pm CST
Alittle while ago today,one of my best friends came to my house to talk to me about a problem he was having with his fiance. You see, he's a truck driver and he drives long distance,and is'nt home for weeks at a time. Well,while away at work he has been noticeing that everytime he calls home his fiance, isn't there to take his call ,and when she is there she only talks to him 5-or 10 minutes at a time. so he gets to a point that he wants to take alittle time off to spend with her("You kow alittle we time".)So he calls his boss,and tells him that he's having some family problems,and that he has to take some time off. His boss agrees, and he makes a beeline home to surprize his fiance. h\He gets to his house("that he's paying for ")and commence to cook a candle lite dinner to set the mood. All of a sudden,the door unlocks and a strangercomes into his house like he's been living there for weeks "(which he has")and is startled to see that there is a another man in the house. So my friend ask this guy who he is ,and why is he in his house, the guy replies, that he is my friend boyfriend and she gave him the keys two months ago. My friend asks this guy how long has this relationship has been going on. The guy replies that he and my friends fiance have been together for three years !!!!! It took an act of Godfor me to stop this man from commiting manslaughter,on him and her. I rrally feel sorry for him ,because he is a very hard working guy who was saving up to give this women a wedding that she would remember for the rest of her life ,and he has suffer the disgrace of calling of the wedding and telling people why he isn't getting married. TO ALL MYLOT FERINDS WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
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Raine38
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
23 Oct 12
You did the right thing in helping your friend not to harm them, it would do your friend more harm than good. While this is something that can never be taken lightly, your friend has done the first right thing, to call off the wedding. I for one cannot trust a person again who fooled me despite the loving way that she's treated. I will let go and let God take care of her, for all we know the other guy might be unaware as well, so it will be that girl's nightmare when karma comes back for her. Karma's a b!tc# to those who deserve it. Your friend should continue working and saving up not for anyone else but for himself. He could do better. It might not be soon, but I know that a very good girl will eventually see your friend for what he's worth and will treat him nicely as he deserve. It is better that he learns of her infidelity now, rather than when they are already married.
biged4800
@biged4800 (21)
• United States
23 Oct 12
My friend is really broken up over this, he and are talking this thing out and he tells me that she really won't confess to cheating on him dispite her getting caught!! She claims that he is never home and that she is always lonely, to me that is just plain selfish on her part, and to think i really liked this women ,because i thought she really good for him the way my friend looked at her when eber we all went out made me envy his relationship,but now i see that she was only a snake in sheep clothing. I'm a man and this is why some men cheat and have trust issues, don't get me wrong there are a lot of men out their that are real DOGS!!!!! But now i see that their are some women that are MUTTS too.
MsTickle
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
28 Oct 12
Surely the friend gets to go home sometime...the guy had the keys for 2 months??? The numbers don't add up here. Even if the guy with the keys took off while the trucker was home, his stuff would still be around. No, this story just doesn't add up I'm afraid. If the story is true, calling off the wedding was a weird move...a necessary one but the first thing I thought would happen was that the girlfriend would be asked to explain, then thrown out on her aarse and then He should've changed the locks and seen a solicitor before the cheating hoe could nail him for part of his stuff.