No wonder.....
By ofzhernandez
@ofzhernandez (278)
Philippines
October 23, 2012 1:38am CST
My current partner got accident last July 4, 2012. That day was a terrified day of my life, because I didn't expect that he would be in a state of accident, I knew him as a cautious driver and vigilant while on the road. When I receive a text message that my partner is in the hospital I was too worried and immediately go to the hospital.
When I arrive at the hospital I was too thankful that he just got some small wounds on his shoulder and elbows and in his knee and toes and some bruises in his back.
This is the real story, when we got home, of course since I am his "partner" I am the one liable of taking care of him. But suddenly I accidentally touch his wounds in his shoulder that cause him feel the pain, I said my sorry he said ok.
While talking and in the middle of story telling why he got accident I again accidentally held his back without thinking that he had bruise right there he suddenly exclaimed "NOW I KNOW, WHY YOU DON'T BECOME A NURSE!" he said " BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO TAKE GOOD CARE YOUR PATIENT."
If you were in my feet what will be your reaction for what he said?
Me what I did after hearing those, I just said, "Fine, then go to your company nurse and seek care to her"!
I hate comparison!!
7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Great response.
I hate comparison too and what the h*ck he needs to compare you with other person.
He must be grateful that you are there to take care of him and there he is acting like that.
I should have slapped him for saying so.
@ofzhernandez (278)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
I want to slap him when he said that, but I did slap him on his face once when he got home late and did not even tell me or texted me that he will be late. But after slapping him and I m calm I just realize what I did is wrong. I regret what I did because he never abuse me physically then why should I?
What I hate about him is that after saying those he didn't even explain himself why he said that. :(
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
23 Oct 12
Really that was the bad luck on your Boy friend part. But keep in mind accident does not happen as it is but accident do happen may be because of our negligence or other people mistake. Take for example how you had hold him back where his back had been bruise, this is also the accident since you are not attentive and you were in your own world. To be in own world may be also the one reason for accident. Hope your boy friend is fine now and had recovered
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
I guess your partner was really in pain and was mad himself for having in that accident. Just be more loving and understand the pain he is going through.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Oct 12
I would like to know first if this pain is for real. Did the doctor miss someting? Nerves can be fairy painfull, need a long time to heal and it's possbile the doctor did not notice it at all. It's also possible this accident became a good reason for your partner to play the patient forever. If he is that way I would tell him to look for and pay a real nurse himself. There is a big difference between a partner and a nurse. Also men are easily complain about little pains, feel sorry for themselves where women have to go on no matter in how much pain they are.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
23 Oct 12
I can feel you are sorry and also very sad about your partner's wound, I can see that you really don't want to make him painful. Don't mind his words that much, maybe he just feels painful that when he said these words, but these words hurt you. If he is always nice to you ,maybe you can forgive what he said. If he always says bad words which hurt, then I don't think you should forgive him.
@jazzyme (113)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Me Too! I hate comparison! I believe that we are created unique from each others.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Nobody wants to be compared to somebody, my friend. I can understand how you feel, because i would feel the same too. But then, you have to bear it, because your husband is hurting from the bruises that he got.
I know that he said it because he was so much in pain.
