Live Live That Pleases GOD...

Please god? Why should anyone just be friendly to others to please god? Out of fear not to make it into one of the heavens? Also.. what has god to do with being kind to your neighbour? And if you can't love your neighbour or even like your neighbour be respectfull? Like one of my kids said as she was bullied: I don't care if they like me, if they ignore me it's fine with me as long as they don't invest all their time and energy in making my life miserable! I always wonder why the most religous people are the most agressive ones too, killing around, raping, not able to respect those who don't believe or believe in someone/something else/ an other god or godess. How come those people are so intolerant? I thought human being is kind of social. Doesn't mean being social you help out someone else, you are friendly, since you never know when you might need some help? If I look around in my country, the countries where I have been, the cultures I lived I can only say that those who are most helpful, friendly, attentive, social, caring are those who are not religious at all. They don't judge, they accept you the way you are? Why? Because they want others to treat them the way they treat you.