How to be matured?
By meumeu25
@meumeu25 (917)
United Arab Emirates
October 23, 2012 1:08pm CST
There are circumstances or things that I don't know that make me feel immature. I'm still naive in many ways, I feel embarras to admit them. I am learning from my experiences but still some people think that I am like a child, I don't know if it's because I am small or because of the way I think, I have to admit I act like one sometimes but it's part of my personality, do I have to get rid of it to be a mature person?
4 responses
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
Well, you don't have to change everything to become mature. Maybe a part of you must improve. But if there are behaviors that you have been used to, then stay the way you are. 
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
23 Oct 12
Being matured means that you can actually effect changes to your environment that no matter how good or bad it is, you can still carry it yourself and not be thinking with other people to help you...
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Oct 12
Hi ,
I don't exactly get what you mean, please forgive me if I am giving a wrong response.
But we can also effect changes to our environment when we act immaturely, for example when we do something impulsively that changes the lives of others.
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I don't exactly get what you mean, please forgive me if I am giving a wrong response.
But we can also effect changes to our environment when we act immaturely, for example when we do something impulsively that changes the lives of others.
@GemmaR (8517)
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23 Oct 12
I think that knowing that you need to become more mature is the first step to reaching maturity, because you have to be able to know that you need to do something about your behaviour. The only thing that you can do is to make sure that when you do something wrong in life, or if you make mistakes, that you learn from them. This is the only way that you're going to be able to build yourself into a better person and that is the way that you would ensure that you were able to become a mature person in the future.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Oct 12
I am not sure if your saying that you have fun like a child or if your saying you still think like a child. I am a little confused.
But if your saying you have fun like a child and you like to act like a big kid there is nothing wrong with that! It is great to be able to still have fun and be a kid at heart.
If your saying your thoughts and actions are child like than eventually that will change. Everyone has milestones and important events in their life which makes them mature a little bit more. I had major life altering things when I was young that made me grow up faster than most people.
For some people it happens faster than others. Personally I don't see anything wrong with it either way, it will happen for you just like it does for everyone at some point.
@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Oct 12
Hi,
I mean I act like one when I am having fun and sometimes think immaturely in some situtions that I encounter. This is embarrassing but I really dislike it when I start to cry when someone tries to confront me about something that caused a problem even if it's not my fault and the person is only making me talk. It makes me feel like I am a child.
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I mean I act like one when I am having fun and sometimes think immaturely in some situtions that I encounter. This is embarrassing but I really dislike it when I start to cry when someone tries to confront me about something that caused a problem even if it's not my fault and the person is only making me talk. It makes me feel like I am a child.