Friendship is a problem

China
October 24, 2012 7:08am CST
I have to admit that I am possessive on the friendship and the relationship aspects. I mean there is a allusion"I must be your only closest person“.I know lots of people have that prolem. Besides,I find that I cannot tolerant the dame rejection.If I was refused, I will be afraid of doing that again. Meanwhile,I know I make a mistake.SO when I am in bad mood,I just be quiet and walk away. I believe that I am the trouble maker in the friendship and relationship.So how do you think about me? And what's your problem in that aspects?
1 response
@salma07 (639)
• India
24 Oct 12
Hi liviatao, Welcome to mylot, i see this is your first post here, have a great time here friend. Well, Everyone faces this kind of problem once in while in any relationship, be it friendship or a relationship you have a little bit of possessiveness and you want your friend to be with you but as you grow up you realise that its wrong and i believe you are in that stage as you have accepted your fault its the first step towards redemption and its a very quality too. Since you know your problem there is only the step of correcting yourself and move forward there is no worth in staying with past and condemning yourself for what you have done in the past. It happens and just let it go. If you believe that you are the trouble maker then try to control yourself analysis the situation from the other person's point of view and you will find a way to apologies to them. take care and have a great time here