What i have to do to get woman?
By Pancakarana
@Pancakarana (94)
Indonesia
October 24, 2012 8:32am CST
i'm very shy when dealing with a woman. i've ever liked a woman . then the woman is married. i talked to my friend who was also her friend. But my friend said " she told me because you never said love her". How can i express a feeling in a woman?
4 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
•
24 Oct 12
I think that the best thing that you could do is to be stop thinking about getting with a woman in that way, and just focus on trying to get to know people and having a good time. If you do this then you're much less likely to have your heart broken, and the woman is more likely to fall in love with you because she won't think that you're trying to get to her and that is something that is very attractive in a man as it is much better to play it cool than to be in her face because this is something that might scare her away from you.
@langlock (15)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
I agree with what halfbloodace said. you must love your self first before loving someone else. Learn to overcome all your fears and complete yourself. Think that you are a wonderful human being and worth to be loved, and you will feel that you are indeed wonderful and really worth loving. Think that you are shy or you don't deserve anything and that will happen. The way you see yourself will make a difference. Once you are confident on being who you are, that will be the time for you to approach the woman you love. In expressing your feelings, just be true to yourself. Express what you really feel and don't make promises you can't keep. Be sincere and creative in expressing your feelings. Goodluck and may you find your perfect match! ^___^
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
10 Nov 12
I am normally shy around boys , I think when when the right person come along , your shy nature will be attractive .
I dont know if I understand quite what you saying so correct me if I am wrong .
The woman you like , is now married?
@halfbloodace (587)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Ah, i can relate to you. Unrequited love is one thing we fear most in life. We don't fear rejection, we fear success. So in getting a woman, you must first love yourself. I too am a shy guy and usually i don't know what to say to women, but after some self reflecting, i came to the conclusion that in order to get women, you must first learn how to master yourself. That is taking the risk in approaching her, until such times that you are both confident with one another, then if you get a hint of her liking you back, tell her your true feelings.
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@Pancakarana (94)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 12
Thans for the comment and your information, maybe i have to do what you recommendation..