Would you still argue...

try writing it all down so you can explain yourself fully and maybe then he'll understand the other aspects of the situation that he might not be aware of. tell him you'll give him time to really think about what you wrote then maybe sit down together after a few days.

Please do not talk to him if you can help,otherwise be calm and collected when he gives you negative responses.Do not get into self defeating talks that will kill your happiness and confidence.

Its an exercise of futility as far as I stand to try and argue with a person who just refuses to believe anything. Some people can be stubborn. One might consider me to be one of these stubborn people out there in the world. Where there are just people out there who just refuse to see anything beyond what they see. Experiences are limited after all and the worldview can be slanted towards ourselves. In the end, I just really find myself shaking my head. My piece is going to be spoken and then what people will think about it, is what they are going to think about it. There have been times where I think my life could be a lot easier if I just rolled over and just let people roll over me. Yet, its just something encoded in my mind where I have to just press on. Of course, when I say what I need to say, it just seems like a waste of oxygen to argue any differently.

I really hate having to go on a debate just to let someone know what I want to say. But sometimes, I just need to say my piece just to let out the heaviness in my chest. Some people could just go on all day blabbing about something, but I do not have time for that. Once I have said my word, I take off.

If i have to be honest with you, i think giving in to an argument for the sake of keeping the peace is really keeping the war. when an argument is getting to unholy limits, i'd rather allow time to pass before bringing up the topic again. sometimes, i try to find out why the other party thinks my arguments or reasons are wrong when i am definitely sure i am in the right. i also try to understand whether if he was really right and i was wrong after all, or vice versa. it is good to do some research before hand and bring up the topic again, i.e another time, because when an argument is taken to unholy lengths, it results to conflict and disagreement. sometimes, both parties start building walls of resistant that makes the argument irresolvable when every argument can be resolved if followed the right way. thanks, offlimits.

Sometimes we get to the point where we are arguing just for the sake of arguing and to me that is no good. However, I think that you should never give in to someone and just say yes to pacify the other person. Sometimes it is best to just agree to disagree and drop the argument. If the person really loves you, they will accept that you have differing points of view and just let it go. They will accept you as you are.

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, i wonder why that person don't believe you and still argue with you even though you are telling truth? it is really hard to deal with such kind of persons. hope he will realize his mistake soon and ask sorry for his activity. Don't worry

If its something really petty then I wouldn't bother. It is hard to talk to someone who can't maintain an open mind, or someone who's already set to not believe you. It would be pointless and useless. However, if it's a matter of grave importance, then I will make sure that we will really talk. I will make sure that he will give me a chance to say what I have to say, and he will listen. Then I will also give him a chance to respond. Sometimes, we just need to calm down in order for us to be able to converse and talk sensibly. So timing is also a key factor here.

Everyone will come across this situation. If the thing you argue is something about principle, you must insist it on. However, when it comes to unnecessary argument, you had better to yield to it to avoid more argument.

When talking about rights then I would argue.But when its just something unnecessary to argue about I just keep quiet.No use of arguments if the others don't want to listen and close mind to understand. I just let them pass.lol