When to say its over without any regrets?

I am sorry to hear about your situation. It would be hard for many to believe his sincerity when a boyfriend would ask money from his girlfriend. Yes, most would think that he is just after the money or in other words, he is just using her. In your case, I do not really want to jump into conclusion that he does not love you or just using you. Maybe he is in love with you but is just plain irresponsible. So if this is the case, you need to think a thousand times before you take time and effort for this relationship because I believe that no one would want an irresponsible husband and father to your kids right? So as early as now, if he truly loves you, talk to him and ask him to settle his issues. If he loves you, he will definitely make an effort to change himself. But if you didn't see any changes, I think it's about time to turn the pages. At least you have given him the chance to prove himself therefore you won't regret if you decide to end the relationship.

A boy who is with a girl for money? That's unusual! Well you must talk to him. IF you love him but he has bad habits your relation won't live for too long. You can't live together in the same house. If you don't love him but have the same habits or hobbies just be friends. As I know this is how it works... Same hobbies + love = Bang!

At least let the love come from you, let your love teach an awkward guy how to deal with a love, let your love be unbeaten. Later it will create its own realm.

Good ideas, but if the relationship isnt good for you, you need to get out of it. Think about you not him.

leave this man. at least now, its not long enough and you will no be hurt that much. if he ask money from you now that you are still in bf-gf state, how much more when you are married to him? asking for money is really a turn-off. he is just showing you that he has no capacity to support you and be a good provider in the family in case you get married. it's a disaster marrying him. forget him and find another guy who is much much capable of handling a relationship especially a marriage.

I would say relationship is not easy. Beginning of every relationship is interesting but gets kind of boring when both partners knows their ins and out.Based on the good comments you gave about him tells a lot about you loving him but know that each individual was brought up in different backgrounda and as such different behaviours. He might not know but my advice is, you sit him down and talk. It takes two to overcome all differences and enhance on your communication skills with him. I bet you he will change for no guy out there is perfect.

I think that it is normal to have doubts about your relationship, but the most important thing that you have to do is to make sure that you understand why you're having these doubts. If you're bored with your partner then it might be that the only thing that you need is something to spice things up, and doing something together would bring a bit of excitement back. However, if you're finding that your feelings have just faded, and there is nothing that you can do, then it would be for the best that you should break up and try to find somebody else who has the same types of feelings for you.

This is very sad to hear. Guys nowadays have changed their preferences drastically. Earlier they used to be with gals with good looks and nature. Nowadays they prefer gals with more money. I have few guy friends who share their likings with me and all of them believe the same thing that it doesn't matter how the gal looks or how is her nature, what matters is money because all good looking gals are already taken It is completely pointless. I would suggest you talk to him and sort this out. Two months is very short duration to decide that it is over. If this was more than a year then I would have said, it's too long. I would say give some more time to your relation and find out the actual reason of your bf doing this.

why you trust anybody else about your boyfriend?? you more trust your deeply heart voice than any people you more know about your boyfriend than anybody else..;. i think just discuss with him from heart to heart and maybe you`ll find the answer about your boyfriend

I believe you should leave your boyfriend after you would confront him and if he does not give you an acceptable reason why he does not want to work. You deserve someone better. There's a lot of fish in the ocean. Good luck thanks.

I think you are able to decide if your boyfriend using you or not. An advice? It's really hard to say because I don't know which type of person is he. Yes, it's pretty strange you he does but if you want a short relation I think it's ok, but if you want a looong relationshp isn't ok. Think about pros and cons about this guy and take a decision.