Penpal with prisoners , Nah Never

Good point , we may get attach to someone we write to . I dont want to feel sorry for a cruel wicked person because I am very forgiven so it would be best not to allow myself to interact with such person .

Good for your friend , she can stat over .. I dont understand either , how can a woman write to a man that murder , could it be that they think they are special ? the chosen to change such criminal? . I would never do that either .

I am with you , the risk is also dare and I like to follow the saying " walk away from trouble if you can" . Yes maybe they are daredevil are used toe being around such persons . It just not for me but I am happy that someone is willing enough to correspond with them because I sure wouldn't .

I also dont support them and I will not not to put myself in danger if it can be avoided . Wow I have never know rape victim get forced to marry the rapist because of some tradition . That is just cruel , I think they are punishing the rape victim more than the rapist in those kinda tradition . These are how we know we are blessed to not have to put up with those kinda tradition but have freedom .

LOl that is just too much badness for me . I agree it is sad , how did they get to such a place . If it happen that I may support a normal criminal all ( not murderer ) , I would give is maybe a job but definitely not my friendship are any kind of personal relationship closeness . I ask myself that very question , we have so many men in the world that has done nothing that bad , why go for a man in prison .

Thats how I feel , I know they deserve at least a second chance but I just couldn't stop picturing their victims and their family . I cant understand that also , how can those woman look pass all the cold blooded crime to the point of marriage . I could not be in a relationship with a person like that either . I am tolerant but that is where I draw the line . I would be in a nightmare every time I look at that person .

I am not perfect and far from it but I would not befriend a murderer are a raper . Each time I talk to them I could only imagine what the victim may go through . I dont have a problem with a person that may be in jail because they are a thief are kill someone by self defense but a cold blooded killer will probably just get out and visit me since I was writing them . I think those people are putting their life in danger by befriending those kinda psycho criminals . Its not just because people say they are bad because of what they have done make people say they are bad . Minus the innocent that get wrongfully convicted , I feel sorry for those who have to be living with the real criminals . As you say its ok to be friend with them but why would someone go out of their way to be friends with a murderer ? Its just bother me whenever I hear these kinda story but I guess they have similar traits and interest since most relationship is based on something similar .

I also have seen these kinda story on tv also, I see a girl befriending a criminal in jail and when he got out he rape her just like his first victim . I would not try it too many people in the world , I dont see why I would go writing criminals.

For me it all depend on the crime also, if no one is murder and I can help the normal criminal change and get a job I would . I have no problem with that but a murderer , I may upset him and end up on his list lol .