Why woman and man tell lie to each other?

In my own opinion Man and Women tell lie each other because they have different personal matters. And sometimes we do lie because we don't want to hurt someone. Happy mylotting!

The question is, if we really love our partner, why did we resort to cheating? There's a lot of topic related to cheating here in myLot and I got a lot of them responded. I believe there is no difference between man and women when it comes to cheating. Man or women tend to resort to cheating just to protect their respective relationships. I'm for one, wont tell that I will ever cheat, because that act could be accidental and it could happen as a result of an event that is not expected. You are right, we chose to deceive rather than hurt our partners. Now, I would do my best to remain faithful and stick to my partner and avoid circumstances that is too close to temptations. Thanks

Yeah, i kind of agree with what you said. Most people who are in a relationship lie in order to not hurt their partner.. but they do not realize, or they realize only later that telling the truth is the best way to keep the relationship alive.. Honesty should be in a relationship.

Adults teach children not to lie, they even punish them for that. But how come adult lie that frequently, day in and out? It seems to be into most human beings. Also that human beings don't like to hear the truth. Even if they claim you have to be honest. True hurts and most of us see it as a personal attack, jealousy or envy. They prefer to be blind and deaf since this way they don't need to act. People tell lies everywhere. At their job, in the shop, on the street, to family, strangers, their partner and kids. It's not true they only do it to feel comfortable, it's more a way to make the other one shut up and not asking anymore. Since if one person starts asking questions the other one has to think and come up with something. BTW what a lie is, is different to each of us as well.

I don't know why people keep cheating. May be because to some people, it's in their nature to tell lies and stories. :)

That's true that people lie to each other even when they are in love. But most of the times, it becomes necessary to avoid fights or disagreements or fear that one may lose love and respect. However, keeping clarity with your partner and keeping him or her informed about everything is the best way to be in one's comfort zone.

Well i am going to look at the positive prospect of why man lie to woman. I think that man lie to woman because they actually care about how the woman feel, if the man is being to frank to woman is never a good thing and maybe there is no longer any love because he care more about himself.

Your point is debatable and all I can say is lies are generally said for many purposes, but definitely to hide the truth. In most instances because the truth is painful or just plainly difficult to accept.

I think people have many different reason to lie , some to have their cake and eat it , it also depends on the lie , if a girl ask a guy how she looks and he say good! well that is a good lie but for a cheater to pretend not to be cheating I cant see the positive in that , he is putting is partner life at risk for catching STDs . Some people are just mental case that lie about everything . While some may lie to protect the one they love and I am not talking about cheaters that are lying . I am taking about someone that truly love his/her family and will rather die than see risk come to them .

As the usual belief of other people,man most of the time lie rather than woman.I don't know how did they come up with that concept. Anyway for me it is always in the mind of the people. I can say that i do some lies(sometimes white lies) for the betterment of the relationships and to avoid quarrels.sometimes girls misinterpreted it and they even react and hallucinate wthout listening to any explanations. But still I stand to be honest with my partner so we will have a succesful and fruitful relationship.as much as possible, i don't want to tell a lie,

Not all the lies we commit are intentional. I guess, we just resort to lying so as to not to inflict harm to your partner or you would like to spare your partner from being hurt.

I think that people, both men and women, lie because they have misconception about lying. They think that as long as they don't hurt other people, it is all right to tell a lie. Some would say that they lied out of love. It is like if you lied so as not to hurt people you love, it is just right to lie. People lie to escape, be it from a punishment/discipline or from reality. In my opinion, all the reasons I have mentioned above are all wrong. The bible has warned us many times not to lie. Why? At John 8:44 we can read: "You are of your father the devil, and you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies." Here, the bible said clearly that God does not approve people who lie. Their nature (lying) is not from God but from Satan who is the father of lies. Lying originated from the Devil so whenever people lie, they are making the Devil happy and not God. Instead of lying, God has remind us to be always truthful and honest. Hebrews 13:18 Pray for us: for we trust we have a good conscience, in all things willing to live honestly.

Between men and women.women sometimes tell lies in order to see the other sad or to make someone fell disappointed,and in order to the point of vanity and lying;man in order for her to agree with him in front of her ostentatious and extravagant,lie for her life.

In love I would advocate that both women and men tell the truth. When you fear that by saying the truth it will hurt just remember; whatever you're hiding in lies when discovered it will hurt even more. So be open, truthful and trust that the love will do the trick in forgiveness.