I'm crazy or she is? I'm a good friend?

Romania
October 28, 2012 2:55pm CST
For a long time I've been in trouble and because of that I can't socialize too much with my friends. I'm in college and I tried to fix it. I have a best friend and we never argued. I think that is a very big difference between a close friend and just a friend. All this topic is about a "she". Me and she talk about hypocrisy and falsehood I said that I am when I need to be like that. It was some situations which require such behavior. She disapproves me. I'm ok with that because each has own opinion. Until today everything seems to be ok and she hugs me and talks to me, such a close friend. Today we start argue and she acts like a crazy one and reproached me a lot of things. And here is my problem. If she said that she can't be hypocrite, how she can acts so sweet while she considers me a pig ? I'm crazy ?
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• China
29 Oct 12
Hi puiuioandaniel We all live in the world with different situations and complicated circumstances around of us,we need deal with all sorts of things and meet all kinds of people,so we should get more skills in communication with people and find a certain way to solve the problem.It doesnt mean us more sophisticated and lack of honesty just because we need more flexible and experienced.SHE looks like a kind girl very pure in heart who deserve us to care about and protect..
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@mychattime (1013)
28 Oct 12
Oh bless you, u seem so sad and confused! Maybe she was just having a bad day and took it out on you? I must admit me and my oldest friend have NEVER argued and we have been friends for nearly 30 years although nowadays we only see each other at xmas but still keep in touch regularly. Dont let it get to you, you need to talk to her and sort it out, the longer you leave it the harder it gets. Good luck
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Oct 12
hi daniel well if y ou have actged like a jerk pig she has reason to get upset. have You? I see no reason why any guy should have to be a pig jerk at all. also people are all complex guys and girls and she is a girl and you are a guy so you are both complex. she can be close and sw et and still feel like you did behave as a pig jerk. do not give her fuel to get upset with 'you ever. no woman like a jerk or a pig.