Should I Stay Right Here Waiting or Start A New Relationship
By dama594275
@dama594275 (14)
China
October 29, 2012 10:04am CST
There is a girl who conducts differently from other girls,and at the first several sights,I was caught by that very personal characristics,hiding my sincere admiration into my inner heart. Further more,there was one time I was always imaging she was the girl I wanna devote my whole heart to,living a simple but peaceful life,with a mutual prospect towards the near future.
However,things were not about to follow the steps as I had planned.One day I raised my all courage to spill out all my feeling to the girl...but,unfortunately,she could hardly find any special feeling to me.
I did not give up.I believe that love happens with persistence and there are no barries before a man whose loving frame is litting up. I carrid on to conduct more considerate and gentle. Surely and sprisingly, I found some changes from the first beginning.
Well,there might be a invisible power that protects things against your willings.The girl,finally,in a shamefu voice,rejected my immature love,like a breeze in winter...
Perhaps,I do assure that I had already get out of the relationship and get started ready for another girl coming across my heart.Sadly,I have just reailized that I am still in deep feeling in her,that very girl, who occasionally appears in my mind,mindlessly.
What should I do? Get over it or have a another try? That's a matter of love of youth.
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5 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
29 Oct 12
You need to follow your heart. Go where it tells you, your Love will be found. Have a great day there. see u here soon.
@dama594275 (14)
• China
30 Oct 12
"Follow your heart" is always one of the best sentence I've read! Now that I do not mean to keep the relationship anymore,I'm trying to keep it as friendship--neverthless,memories are sometimes so powerful that I cannot completely behave what I meaned to,with a smile in relief.
@dama594275 (14)
• China
30 Oct 12
Wow,man's words!I have heard that it's never too late to seek a true lover,and r will you realize that who is right for you--I'd like to,but continuously did the scene where she stared in striked my mind.So,I am right here waiting,waiting for my romance--what a pity!
@GemmaR (8517)
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29 Oct 12
I think that it is always bad when you can't get the person that you want, but sadly there are some things that cannot be helped. You should first of all talk to them about how they feel so that you know whether you have a chance with them or not. If it turns out that you don't, then the only thing that you can do is to move on and start to try and meet other people. This is a good thing as you never know who you're going to meet, and chances are you will be able to meet the person who you will be very happy with for the rest of your life.
@dama594275 (14)
• China
30 Oct 12
Hi,GemmaR,as you suggested,I've tried to exchanged ideas of feeling to each other with her,but...as you can see,things did not work out in a scheduled way.She dirrectly make it thorough that she didn't have any feelings of ramance with me,just of friendship.
It's not easy to make aquantance with a girl who you are supposing to be the special one.Perhps time will fade away the relationship that did never start actually,preparing adequte room for "the one"--well,to be honest,a little anxious and doubtful...
@dama594275 (14)
• China
30 Oct 12
Yes,sometimes I feel the same way.At the certain age of twenties or so,there are occasions where harmone take over our unmature minds.It's common that we young people have infinite desire for excitment gemerating from harmone,sometimes even for nonsense vanity.
Again and again have I asked myself whether my feeling of the romance came from that harmone accidently.A bit doubtful at first,but with time passed by,it came to the conclusion that it's an affair of true love.
@MiaFerrari (51)
• Argentina
29 Oct 12
I know what it is like to be in that frustrating situation in which you are in love with someone but that person doesn't feel the same way. I was in that situation for four years, until I realized it wasn't healthy for me, it was destroying my self-esteem to know that I wasn't good enough. I had to be honest with myself: it was never going to work, I couldn't generate feelings for me in him. So I decided to get over him; it didn't happen overnight, it took time and tears. But it worked. I let him go, I was on my own for two years and now I have a healthy relationship with someone I love and who loves me back. And it feels great.
Ask yourself: will it ever work? Be honest. And if you still have feelings for that person, then don't start dating someone else yet: you're going to hurt her, even if you don't mean to. Keep your mind focused on something else, do something for the one person who matters most: you. If you are reasonable and honest with yourself, you are going to get over her. There is someone perfect for you out there, you just have to be open to the possibility of finding her.
@dama594275 (14)
• China
30 Oct 12
Best wishes to you for your finding the right person,sincerely.
YES,I cannot agree with you more,loving a person who do not show any interests in your pitiful love,leaving you struggling with empty admiration and endless sorrow.
In the last summer,frustration had almostly despaired all my courage.Countless calls and messeges sended out,little or no responses back--continous miss drived me crazy and desperate.I could't bear that delibrate ignorance so that there were thousands of thoughts of giving up...However,I continued,for love.
Details shall dissolve everything.I finally did accept she is not in that feeling at all...I tried several times to make some new aquantances,but failed inthe same way.Time permitting,everythings will be got over,I believe!
