what should i do?
By irhadelgado
@irhadelgado (78)
October 29, 2012 10:14am CST
I have a crush on school, actually we are classmates on one subject. but it never crossed my mine that i would feel this for him.... it just started during our fieldtrip. i was sitting at the middle part of the bus and most of the boys are on the back part, including my him. when we are at the middle of our way, the driver said we are still far to our destination. so most of our classmates sleep first.. ans when i saw them, i made fun on taking pictures of them while sleeping. but everytime i would look at the back instantly, this "crush" of mine would also look at me.. i dont know. maybe he was just getting caught beacause i was looking instantly.. i really don't know!!..
and now, i sent him already a friend request on facebook .. but sadly, he still do not accept it.. i also saw in his pictures,, him with a girl.. i think it was his girlfriend.. i don't know!! because at the pictures, they were close!! and it was the only girl in his pictures.. his pictures were just a few actually..
i just realized that i was just nothing to him .. that's why i want to forget my feelings for him!!
TELL ME GUYS! WHAT SHOULD I DO?? how should i forget him if almost everyday i saw him in school??
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8 responses
@MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
20 Nov 12
hmmm.. i think i now this guy.. haha:DD try to talk to him!! come on!!
@MarinellaPetBay (89)
• Philippines
21 Nov 12
just try to..no!! i don't want him, you know that.. hahaha:DDD are you sure of that? losing your feelings for him?? I think that's your biggest pretend.
@irhadelgado (78)
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22 Nov 12
"ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS" !!
sometimes, we just keep on saying something but it's not what we are doing..
:/
@irhadelgado (78)
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21 Nov 12
how could i do that, if i cannot??
actually it's just fine.. i was starting to lose my feelings for him..
"HE'S YOURS IF YOU WANT "..
@mhaiiii13 (17)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
Girl!!!! We have the same situation! :( :)) Try to talk to him. :) There's nothing wrong in trying. Just be yourself. :)
@irhadelgado (78)
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13 Dec 12
really?!! and who was that lucky guy you were talking about?? :)
and have you already tried your suggestion? :D
@GemmaR (8517)
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29 Oct 12
I think that it can be very hard when you are young and you have a crush, because it is hard to be able to know what to say to people when you like them. I think that the best thing that you could do would mean that you should tell him the way that you feel, and ask him if he feels the same way about you. This doesn't mean that you will definitely be able to be with him, but I do think that the most important thing is that you should always be truthful about the way you feel, because he might feel the same you never know.
@irhadelgado (78)
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31 Oct 12
I don't want to say this but the truth is I was nothing to him??
how would it be?? if we are not friends anyways??
by the way i was planning to transfer.. and when we are still at the same school, i want to avoid to see him.. so that i would not miss him :(
@IAmNena (178)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
Gurl...It's just a crush,How long do you have these feelings for him? So crushes are more easier to forget than someone you really love.I think he's not interested in you,because yeah, He knows you but he didn't accept your friend request on facebook. About the field trip part,It obvious that he looked at you back because he noticed you keep on looking at him,of course he'll response.You don't have to force yourself to forget him,like what I said it's just a crush.Someday you'll just ignore him without even knowing it.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
30 Oct 12
I'd just try talking to him. You can get a lot from a simple innocent conversation with out giving away your secret. He might notice a pretty girl is speaking to him and start to express interest like a lot of men or on the other hand you can possibly find out if he is attached. If he happens to catch on that you're into him and he's seeing someone else then I'm sure at the very least he's flattered and there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Besides guys are a dime a dozen so either way you're young and beautiful so its no skin off your nose. Honestly I'd be more afraid of never knowing if you had a chance if you like him all that much.
Also if it helps I once dated a guy who liked me for almost a whole year and I never knew about it. In fact I never even thought about him in that way until someone pointed it out to me. Then I ended up dating him.
@irhadelgado (78)
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31 Oct 12
really?? you ended up dating with the guy you didn't expect to be with??
i wish that would also happened to us.. but it think that would just remain as is :(
because i would definitely disagree with what you called me..("a PRETTY girl")??
i was on the contrary.. that's one of the main reasons why i already know that he would never feel the same way for me.. or.. even just notice that i was existing..
:(
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
That's quite hard. Looking back in those times I felt that way towards someone, I realized I should have played it cool and not let my emotions get the better of me. I should have been more friendly and think positive that if I wanted to get to know my crush then being friends would be enough.
Why do you say you're nothing to him? Let go of expectations.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
If I were you, I would befriend him. It won't harm me.
If he has a girl friend already, then I will accept that.
Of course, you are a nobody to him because you have not interacted with him. How can he notice you when you have not put any effort into doing that? Facebook friend requests are not enough. Plus, it's not brave.
You have to step up and gather the courage to talk to him or nothing will happen.
But if you want to forget him, then just don't think about him.
