Yelling at his wife
@lologirl2021 (5542)
United States
October 29, 2012 12:45pm CST
So today i got to work and everything seemed to be ok, my bosses wife my other boss was not out in the office yet and was just coming out from being inside. She sat down at her deskand started doing work and he was outside getting the guys out at jobs, no big deal just an oridinary day at work and another day here.
Then all of sudden he started yelling and going crazy and being rude to his wife which is pretty normal and i dont know how she just sits there and takes it i would be crying and a mess if my bofyriend or husband was doing this to me everyday. She asked him a question if he had called someone and he blew up over it and yelled back at her that he didnt know she wanted him to call but seriously she was just asking if he had already.
I want to say something but then again i dont. What would you do?
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12 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
29 Oct 12
A perfect example why husband and wifes should not work together.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
29 Oct 12
well they have been doing this for a while and i dont know if they did it when i didnt work or here or what but its really bad.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
30 Oct 12
It is definitely very difficult for me to understand how a wife can accept such a rude behavior from her husband,and I think that if he yells at her in front of many people he might be even worse when they're alone at home,but I think that if she's unhappy with the way she's treated by that jerk,she can take action and divorce him.Anyway,I guess I would also prefer not to intervene in such a situation because I generally think it isn't a good thing to interfere in other people's lives without their consent.I just hope that she will manage to get rid of her husband's tyranny somehow.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
29 Oct 12
i know he makes her feel bad in front of customers and clients as well because she has told me before i feel bad for her its not her at all but him and he jsut starts yelling right when she starts talking its ridiculous
@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
30 Oct 12
hello there,
I think, she loves her husband, and adapted to his need/urge to shout.
I would do the same his wife did, calmly listen to what he says and act like i doesn't care at all, when the boss calms down, i would tell him how bad of him was to shout. Actually, if my employer would shout at me everyday, i would leave the job.
I don't like stress :)
@dulshanrd (32)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 12
Let them solve their own problems and do not interfere to talk between Husband and wife or you will be also getting your ears filled up with 'this is none of your business, stay away from this, you are just not a married one to understand or other things. You have done the best thing you can do and,
Some husbands and some wives are in that type,
so choose your one carefully or you will be in a big trouble !
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
29 Oct 12
Wow!! This is probably the reason, unless these are the 2 main people who run the Business most people say it is not wise to have the husband and wife working together. I know in the past even back when I was dating, working with someone you were dating in a close proximity can be quite awkward as well.
But personally this would be hard to take everyday especially when their are a lot of people around. Sure my husband and argue from time to time, but in private. She needs to have them get couples counseling or such to see if their is a way to solve this as this is not good. Makes you wonder about when they are not around others don't it?
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
30 Oct 12
I think it would be hard not to say anything about it, but it is probably best to just keep quiet about the situation unless it gets really out of hand. If it is something that happens a lot they should probably reconsider working that closely together, but again that is not something you should bring up either. I hope for your sake and theirs that they learn to get along a little bit better.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
29 Oct 12
that is very rude and definitely not the kind of behaviour one would enforce on and its strictly prohibted also
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
30 Oct 12
The guy is obviously doing something wrong. He is somehow guilty, he got suddenly mad without any cause at all, when his wife ask him if he called someone. But then, that was just a innocent question from his wife. Some people are just plainly guilty on what they do.
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
30 Oct 12
Honestly unless the abuse becomes physical or down right offensive I would stay out of it. I've found many times there are people in situations like that who either don't realize there is a problem or are in denial. Because of this many of them tend to unwelcome advice on the subject matter. Not to mention this obviously involves your boss's personal life and he might not appreciate you getting involved either. I'd hate to see you put your job in jeopardy.
