choosing between who makes ur heart beat and one whose reason for beating is you
By deriellevc73
@deriellevc73 (982)
Philippines
October 30, 2012 6:40am CST
it would have been easy to choose between two people; one who makes your heart beat and one whose heart beat because of you, if it's not coupled with other factors. The one who makes your heart beats but who does not give you important like the way you want him to do.. The other one loves you very much and makes a lot of effort to make you smile. He does things for you but your heart does not beat like it does with the other guy although you like him too. Who will choose between the two? Is it really commendable to choose someone you love so much but who does not return your feelings with the same intensity than someone who loves you and makes you laugh? Moreover, the one whom you love is much older than you ( 9 years) and the one who loves you so much is younger than you by the same years. If you are to choose, who will you choose to be with?
5 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
I think I would choose the person who loves me. I think if I would give him a chance to prove himself, then i could also learn to love him back.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Nov 12
It depends on each individual who to choose on this matter.
We knew that there are people who choose the one they love even if the feeling is not mutual.
A lot of people who give everything to the one they love even if they suffered a lot and even humiliated.
While there are people are choose to become practical by choosing someone who love them even if they don't love the other person.
If I am to choose- I would rather choose the person who loves me.
I have been through the most painful experience by loving someone who doesn't deserve to be treated special.
Now- I decided to love someone who loves me and gives me importance.
And I am sure- one day soon, I will love him back and even respect him for all the effort and sacrifices he did for me.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
30 Oct 12
I think that it can be very hard to choose when you are put in this situation, and sadly it is something that I have had to choose between on more than one occasion. I had a friend who told me that he liked me, even though I had no feelings for him, and part of me wanted to be with him because I was flattered that he liked me in that way. But eventually I realised that the only thing that I wanted was the man who excited me, and even though his feelings for me might not have been as strong as the other person's, I am glad that I made that decision for the long term.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Oct 12
There is nothing to choose if both are not loving eachother.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
30 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are very much correct but i think it would be very tough and difficult to choose between the two options as both of them are close to our heart and are hold much importance in our lives. But i would like to choose that person whose heart is beating for us as they realize the importance of us in their life and they would always strive to see us happy and smiling all the time.
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