happy, sad or both????
By mychattime
@mychattime (1013)
October 30, 2012 3:27pm CST
Are you generally a happy optimistic person or do you always think of problems? i'm quite optimistic and positive about things and am generally happy but my husband is always looking and thinking of problems that could occur, he was talking about them last night and I told him to not worry about it if it hasn't happened, he is just looking for bad things to happen in his life!
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4 responses
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Hi!
Optimistic persons live a worry free life and happy as well. It is good that we always think positive. However, at times we must also be cautious and consider things around us but not to the point that one is looking for bad things to happen. I've known a person who is looking for bad things to happen and always think negative. The sad thing about her is that every week something bad happens to her. We must avoid negative thoughts, because it is not pleasing to God. It is written in the Bible, "think what is noble, what is right, and lovely."
Have a nice day!
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
30 Oct 12
Im mostly a happy person here. I do get sad sometimes thinking about missing my son. Hes away in the usa going to school. I wont see him till xmas. But most of the time Im a happy girl.
@mychattime (1013)
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30 Oct 12
Thank you Maria, I would miss my son as well if he wasn't with me, it isn't long until xmas now though.
@Bluebell18 (636)
• United States
30 Oct 12
When I'm happy, I tend to be joking to myself and making jokes. When I'm sad, I want to be as isolated from everyone as possible. But there's the saying, someone out there is sadder or in worse shape than you. So, despite my problems, I'm happy. Tell your hubby to look for the good things in life. He's alive, and there's always tomorrow.
@mychattime (1013)
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30 Oct 12
Thank you, i would but don't think it would work at the moment, he is in immense pain and waiting for something to be done but yes i do tell him to stop being so negative all the time as it drives me CRAZY!!!!