How could a man do this to his own child
By shylade
@shylade (3132)
Philippines
October 30, 2012 6:40pm CST
I have read an article about a man suing his wife for being ugly. Why that so? Well, the story goes like this. The wife got pregnant and the husband described the baby as incredibly ugly. Because of that he has suspicion that his wife is having an affair because neither one of them looks like the baby. Because the wife is tired of all his accusations, she confessed about her having a major plastic surgery to enhance her beauty. The man feeling deceived sues her for not telling him that she was ugly before. The worst is that his own daughter is being dragged in this scandal. How could a man do this to his own daughter? This just clearly shows that he loves beauty over his wife and his daughter who has his own blood.
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12 responses
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Hello shylade. This man is a real jerk. He probably isn't very good looking him self. As for the lady having plastic surgery she probably told him that to get him off her back. As for the baby being ugly She will grow up to be a real beauty.
I had some neighbors one time that had four incredibly ugly babies. Now as the years went by those girls got very pretty. In fact they were beautiful young ladies. The parents were rather homely sand when the girls were born they looked like their parents.
Too bad the father couldn't love his wife and daughter for who they were.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
I was shocked reading that news too just a while ago. What kind of a person is he? He was only in love with his wife's beauty and nothing else? I mean it was bad enough to be thinking that his wife must have bore a child with another man, and then he sues her for being ugly? Doesn't her wife have the freedom to choose whatever he wants to look like? I mean, it is not a crime to make yourself beautiful if you wanted to and if you have the money to support the surgeries. Really crazy man!
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
I was shocked too. After reading about a nanny killing two children days ago, then here's another ridiculous news. It's more than a murder I think and it's the own father. This is the sad truth nowadays. Manyt men just value the face more than the personality. So look what happen. This crazy man should learn his lesson the hard way. Thank you for the response.
@STOUTjodee (3573)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Totally agree with you! Maybe the child turned out "ugly" because of the father's genes? 
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
31 Oct 12
I don't understand how a father could ttreat a wife and child in that way, it is so cold uncRING. where is the love in that relationship?
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Oh my...
The wife must be very shameful, same with their daughter. 
That's too sad he just married her because of her face.
The story was a bit funny, just like in a comedy movie but it ended up to a big problem. What has happened now? Is it possible to sue his wife? I think it's not her obligation to tell him everything. Or maybe in that surgery thing, I guess she should have told him in the first place. But seriously, to sue her because of that? 
..too inconsiderate father. 
That's too sad he just married her because of her face.
The story was a bit funny, just like in a comedy movie but it ended up to a big problem. What has happened now? Is it possible to sue his wife? I think it's not her obligation to tell him everything. Or maybe in that surgery thing, I guess she should have told him in the first place. But seriously, to sue her because of that? ..too inconsiderate father. @STOUTjodee (3573)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Oh, my gosh! Had to check this out for myself http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2223718/Chinese-man-sues-wife-ugly-court-AGREES--awarding-120-000.html Apparently the judge also believes in beauty over love! I guess the wife should have been honest with him before they got married?
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Yes, that's the only mistake the wife did. Not telling him about her past. But I think if he really loved her then that doesn't matter. I mean, beauty is not the measurement of love. And what is really ridiculous is that he is saying that his daughter is terrible ugly. Well,I just hope he gets what he deserves. Thank you for the response.
@STOUTjodee (3573)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Totally agree with you, it wasn't the woman's fault she didn't tell him before they got married. But how can he deny some one of his own flesh and blood? Maybe the ugliness came form his side of the family!
@Sindelle (824)
• United States
31 Oct 12
What in the world is wrong with that guy? What country does this story take place in? Also not many babies are ugly. For him to call his own baby ugly is just horrible. I feel sorry for the wife as well. He obviously never loved her if he only married her for her looks. I hope that baby grows up to be a beautiful model and laughs in his face. What a jerk.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
31 Oct 12
I think a person can be beautiful and lovely inside and what she looks like should not matter. The man married the lady and because of that he should love her and care for her. With thought about the baby I have heard to story of the Ugly Duckling. Their daughter may grow up more beautiful. I have heard it said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The man sounds like he is a right idiot. The lady had plastic surgery before she met him. I feel ever so sorry for the lady and their daughter. The man is not deceived just really nasty.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Nov 12
Yes, the husband is not really thinking well. He is selfish and now he is just showing his true colors. That he married his wife because she's beautiful. Right, the daughter will grow beautifully. he don't need a very selfish father. They deserve a better man. Thank you for the response.
@comment_please (338)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
in a relationship, honesty is a must.
it is said, never rush into marriage...waiting for a while is a benefit.
a relationship before marriage must be friendly and spiritual affair. it must be
based on the Bible. In this case, they started wrong in some avenue.
If there is God within them...it can be solve. the case is the husband is insecure and ungodly.
pls view www.storyfactors.sulit.com.ph and check out their "Highly effective marriage book. ooops! i am not selling. i have this book too and it is great.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
The husband is ridiculous! How can he do that to his wife! He is such a shame! Women are created to be loved. Poor daughter to have a father like him. tsk2
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
31 Oct 12
That is one for the books. If a man even thinks his child is ugly is one thing but then the wife confesses to having surgery to enhance her beauty. She should have just told him in the first place, and the fact he is sueing over this is just ridiculous. It sounds like something out of a cheesy soap opera.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Yes, that's one mistake the wife had. She should have told this man what she went through to be more beautiful. In that way, she can see how he would react and if the man does not accept it then this will not gone this far. However, there's a reason why this is happening. I ma just praying for the little baby. She deserve slove more than ever. Thank your for the response.
@liviaslife73 (238)
• United States
31 Oct 12
Is this something that is happening in the United States? If it is then I am surprised that the case is not being laughed right out of court. This man is obviously an idiot & if I were the wife & I would tell him goodbye in no uncertain terms. Who would want to be married to such a jerk? Yes of course you want to be somewhat attracted to your spouse, but beauty like all things with time fade. What do you do then? You have to be inlove w/ the person they are on the inside as well as whats on the outside. I feel sorry for his daughter as well. To say your own flesh & blood is ugly is not only mean, but it's cruel as well. That poor child will grow up with a low self esteem because of how her dumb father made her feel about herself. That in itself is cruel!
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
No, it's happening in China. Yes, the father is heartless. He don't love the money because of who she is but because of her beauty. That's when he found out about the surgery he divorced her and much worst he shunned his own child. Thank you for the response.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
31 Oct 12
Horrible husband! If he is my husband I would beat him hard so that he'll learn his lessons. It's not the woman's fault nor the baby. It's the husband insecurities that needs to be addressed. Nowadays if you have the money to do it... having plastic surgery is not an issue. Every woman has the right to enhance her beauty may it be natural or artificial. I would never talked to him if I'm his wife.
