How to improve your relationships
By seliokas
@seliokas (346)
Lithuania
October 31, 2012 7:48am CST
Hello guys,
My wife and I are happy about our relationships, but still, we are searching any ways to improve it! Could you share the ways you treat your girlfriend, wife, husband or boyfriend, i would really like to surprise and make my wife be even more happy!
Thanks in advance :)
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15 responses
@Manasha (2755)
• Pondicherry, India
31 Oct 12
The only mantra to meet the needs of a relationship is to keep distance always. One should know his limits in order to live happily and you can see many people in this world who lives within the circle do not face problems. Whoever it may be, you should not poke into their freedom
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@Manasha (2755)
• Pondicherry, India
1 Nov 12
giving freedom does also has limits and if it crosses a certain level you have to face a lot of issues even with your wife. You will realize this soon and can understand my words at that time. Life is not bed or roses as it is laid with thorns and stones everywhere. So,you have to be very careful to all people and all relationship
@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
31 Oct 12
Hello,
Me and my wife don't have limits at all, we talk about everywhere about everything.
Theme isn't important, sometimes we can go crazy.
I can't talk about such themes with anyone except my few best friends.
Of course, i give her as much freedom as she wants since i trust her a lot.
Happy myLotting!
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
1 Nov 12
Every one wish to live a happy life. We are in need to improve our relationship with our partner to live our life in a good way. Not every one is blessed to have a good life partner. If you have a good life partner who have the ability to understand you as well as have lot of care and affection with you, really you are a lucky person in this world.
We can make our partner to become happy with our activities. Both husband and wife have a lot of expectation with each other. We must find out our spouse expectation and try our maximum to fulfill it to improve our relationship. Giving surprises and sudden shocks will increase the happiness of the family life.
In our life time we celebrate lot of functions, festivals and events. We must give a surprise gift to our spouse based on their taste. It will make them happy and they show their affection based on our interest. Both couples have good understanding with each other and trust them to live a happy life. This kind of small gift will increase the happiness of our life and show our real affection with our partner.
Most of the persons expect some gift from their partner during festival and special occasions, if we provide the gift based on their need, it will increase their affection and they will become more attachment with us. Adjustment and compromises are part of our life. Avoid Ego and adjust with simple mistakes of your partner and made them to realize about their faults in a good way.
Don't beat or blame them for their mistakes. Always be kind and give your affection to keep them in your way. Be frank and share your ideas with your partner. Always be loyal and never try to cheat them even in your dreams. True and real relationship will lasts forever.
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@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
1 Nov 12
Hello,
Firstly, thanks a ton for really informative, good and useful respond to my discussion. You were great answering things about marriage in every aspect.
Thank you for that, I've found some really nice tips I've never used before and i can improve the way of how i treat my women. I agree with every of your statements too, True and real relationships will last forever!
Happy myLotting!
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
31 Oct 12
We still do little things for each other...
We constantly learn new things about one another...
We are open about everything between us
When we stumble, we pick ourselves up, wipe each others' tears, and try harder...
We still laugh and joke around about silly things
We laugh at each other - As well as ourselves
We realize that we have other roles in life and that sometimes our relationship can't come first, but it will never go to the back burner
Sometimes we have to separate ourselves from the role of bf/gf/husband/wife to remember that we were FRIENDS before that and that underneath those roles we are still human beings - Each of us vulnerable, each of us with fault
Good luck
(:
@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
31 Oct 12
Thanks for sharing! i Found few things I've never realized before, Before our relationship, we've been friends for like 2 years! Then i divorced with my girlfriend and started to like everything about her :), She was a good friend and now she is good wife. Thanks.
Happy mylotting!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
31 Oct 12
If you both are satisfied or as you say happy, how more happy can one be?
A good relationship is about sharing, having quality time together plus having a life of your own. To be free to go for your own goals. At least that is what it is for me. Personally I don't like surprises and last week I heard in the news a big part of the women don't (might be they never really get the surprise they like or for other reasons). I think if you know your wife very well you know how to surprise her also.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
1 Nov 12
Well good to know that you are having good relationship but still want to improve it more. There are people out there who are not happy in the marriage and have lot of problem and instead of solving it, they never talk about it and never think of improving it. I am happy to have known you that you are doing great with married life. For is it all about understanding and being humble. This can be a factor to make things last in a relationship. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
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@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
1 Nov 12
Hello, and i totally agree with you, there are lots of people who don't understand how marriage should really affect people, they shouldn't have ANY secrets anymore, they should talk about everything. Thanks for great tips for everybody.
Happy myLotting!
@james7981 (7)
• China
31 Oct 12
i am sure your wife is very happy because of your in earnest in your relationship. also, i would like to share some of my opinions:
1. Try to show your best to your spouse, not only in the appearance, but also in your professions and capabilities. People will be attracted to something beautiful/handsome or powerful.
2. Give each other at least one hug/kiss everyday. make that be your habit,and you will be feel more closely to your spouse. I once have read a story that one couple finally come back together because they were so used to hug each other every day that they were uncomfortable to part from each other.
Good luck.
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@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 12
You're really care about your wife.Nice husband.My experience to make my wife more happy are : in the morning i always give a hug and kiss for her,and then we're breakfast together with our kids.When you're or your wife at work,please spend your time to send short message via cell phone.in the evening or before go to bed,we're drink tea together or watching movie and having fun with our kids.The simple thing that you've done is really important for your wife.
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
31 Oct 12
Trying to please your loved one is really a nice thing. When we are still teens and have just started our relationship we tend to be more appreciative and try to invent surprises so as to please our partner. But after getting married things may start to get more busy, and at times we might end up taking our spouse for granted. It is therefore a good idea to come up with a little gift from time to time, or a little surprise. It will bring that spark of love and appreciation. If you have children it is also important to ensure that you make quality time for all the family toegther, and also for you and your spouse alone.
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@pecito (303)
• Bulgaria
1 Nov 12
I personally don't believe in long-lasting relationships. It has been said that true love lasts only 3 years. After that it's commitment and common interests that keep two people together. Some people stay in a relationship because they are afraid to try something new and more exciting, they are afraid of a failure or of being rejected. I don't understand the perseverance to live with someone for more than 5 years. Why is it necessary to limit ourselves with sticking to just one partner forever when we could choose the variety and colorfulness of what life has to offer??
@seliokas (346)
• Lithuania
1 Nov 12
Hello,
I Respect your opinion, but, i Don't agree with you ^ ^.
You said: It has been SAID that true love lasts only 3 years. It is SAID, and not PROVED. I can reject it.
We've been dating for 2 years before marriage, and now we are 2 years married.
I still feel the same feelings for her, and i know it's True LOVE since I've never had this feeling before dating with other girls. SO I'm feeling the same love after 4 years being together. I'm sad you probably didn't felt Love :). But I hope you will fall in love soon and be happy!
@pecito (303)
• Bulgaria
1 Nov 12
You feel like that for her because you haven't met someone hotter than her so far. Maybe it's destiny that hasn't put another exciting woman in your way. I am 100% that if you meet a woman that gives you butterflies in your stomach you'll start feeling doubtful about your 'true love'. Time will show if it's written for you to be in the captivity of marriage or you will start getting some fresh air out of it.
I understand that you prefer to play it safe and not jump into the unknown because there has been no other woman to provoke your interest up to now.
@pecito (303)
• Bulgaria
1 Nov 12
Balipromo:
If you see a gorgeous woman and you don't have a raise for her-that's not normal.
And if you have a raise but you suppress it that will be very frustrating for your ego as a male. Men are hunters and conquerers. History proves that. It's natural when you conquer a land( or a woman in our case) to keep conquering further.
Common people, admit that men cannot be monogamous and there is no need to be. There is nothing bad in trying to satisfy more women.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
31 Oct 12
I feel a great way to be in a good relationship is to always try to do different things together. I hear people whose relationships go bad after years. Because they always did the same things together. try a few different hobbies together. Have a great wed. there.
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