The stupid thing she has done in the name of Love

So you share your good friend's experience on the internet? Is she still a good friend of you? And what exactly is the stupid thing and why? Is her life already over that she can call it the most stupid thing she did in her ENTIRE life??? I think what she did many people do, men and women, just read the discussions over here or elsewhere or go outside in the real world and hear what people have to tell (btw tv is full with it as well). As I understand she asked him to come back after a week they broke up? And she already is/was over him after one week??? Or do I understand it wrong? It can't be a real broken hard if a family can help you over a relationship within just 1 week. I wish your friend a good relationship in the future. Just sitting there, waiting for mr Right is not the way to find one, she better set goals and start living her life instead. Nobody will like to stay with someone who is just sitting and waiting for someone who makes you happy.

hi lit, I think it's a natural moves when you really love the person you will do the things you can't imagine you can do but after that when the feelings are gone they will say to themselves it was a stupid moves. happy mylotting

I don't think that's stupidity. A heart that love someone will do everything in the name of love. There is always an end to every stupidity or foolishness- but these are normal things to do when people are in love.

We all do sort of stupid, crazy things just because of love. And I myself, have done it so many times! I just completely loss my mind whenever I am in love coz I give my all and as bad as it may seem, I have not left anything for myself, that it always ended up as me being really hurt.

I couldn't blame those people who do this out of desperation. But it depends on the situation. If the guy was a jerk then she's a fool to want him back. But if the girl did something wrong and caused the relationship to break up then I think she has good reason to be desperate to want her guy back. However, it is easier than done to let go of past partners and face the future.

There are times in life when you have to step back and evaluate what's going on around you. You have to weigh up if the relationship is worth saving because sometimes it isn't and its easier just to say good bye. It sounds to me that your friend had a hard break up and in her head she didn't know what she wanted, but when we first break up we always question our decision. It's good that your friend had good family and friends her to support her that's always important

i think that it is natural to want to complete your life with a significant other who will love you. love from friends and family is love, but not the same type of love. there is a soul mate out there for everyone. as long as she waits for the right person, i think it would be a wonderful thing for her to find the right man again.

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes she did the worst mistake by begging his ex to come back to her life. I think she should have moved on and forgotten all the memories of her past relationship and live her life openly. Besides she has such a great family who is always there to stand with her and support her in all her cause. She should now give more priority to her family than to her personal life. What say?