I missed you

I think most times infatuations happens in life and true love only happens after long period of time. I would suggest you to really look at your feelings and make sure it is the true feeling.

My boyfriend had to leave a month ago to Korea because he's in the army. Unfortunately, he had to leave behind here in Florida. Ever since he left things have been pretty sad and I miss him all the time. It's hard on both of us because he tells me all the time how he wishes I was there with him and wishing he could've brought me along. He tells me all the time to stay strong and he'll be back soon. But sometimes it's just so sad being here without him and I can't help but cry.

It is impossible to completely forget a person that we love so much. But as days pass, we learn to prioritize other things and thinking about that love would be lessened. Life should not stop just because our love has left us. We should be able to learn to pick up the pieces and face the world with a braver face.

I haven't experienced something that painful thankfully. My first bf I don't feel so much love for him. More like, I was confused why we broke up since he just stopped talking to me completely. These days we sometimes get to talk in our high school reunions and I tease him about his stupidity LOL, he's embarrassed about his past behaviour I think and always avoids the topic saying that it's in the past. My second bf betrayed me. It felt good dumping him. All my feelings for him vanished right then. My third bf I left because I fell for another guy who spent more time with me than he did. For some reason he's not been very attentive towards me in our later months so... we broke up. I feel guilty about what I did, selfish it may seem but I think it was better that way than having prolonged the relationship when i don't really love him any more.

You two must have a better understanding before you going to love