Having kids

No way I will adopt a kid. Now days, kids are rebellion, lazy, and very demanding. Lots of responsibility, and tons of patients for being a parent. Even to your own kid, you can loose your patient. Imagine if it is not your own? You have to be an angel to adopt a kid. People say there are a lot of kids need help. That is true. It's not that I don't want to help kids, or that I am selfish. If I have money, I will give my time, effort and money to help kid, not even just 1 kid, more kids! But I will not adopt. There are a lot of ways to help. You don't have to adopt a kid just to help. Also there are more than 1 kid who needs help. So better to spread the help to more kids, than just helping 1 kid. Adoption is big responsibility. If you can't handle it, better not. I have 2 teenagers who always drive me crazy!

If I was more financially stable I think adopting a child would be great. There are times since me and my husband got remarried that I wish we both wouldn't have gotten fixed. Kind of miss having a little one around! However, for now we have a dog and she is just about as much fun as a child and takes a lot of patience too!

hi pogi, I almost adopt a child before but it seems the parents are selling the child so I changed my mind I want to adopt the to give him a better future. happy mylotting

I have two friends right now who are hoping to bear a child on their womb. Their husbands and the two of them are always finding solutions to that problem like always going to doctor for them to be able to know what's their reproductive problem. I felt pity sometimes to both of them for they are so frustrated to have a child.I am not against adoption also but I still want to bear a child on my own.