Secret Affair!
By Daisy_22
@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
November 3, 2012 8:07am CST
Have you been into a relationship which seems to be the center of the talks in town? Love sees but it doesn't matter they've said.One of my friend fell into an affair she never dream of. She became a mistress without any knowledge at first but when the time she knows that I man she adore is already married,it's already too late. She was pregnant for two months and she can't get back already for she really fall in love deeply with the guy. To recover their dignity, they decided to migrate and continue their affair...However after a few months her parents died in car accident so they decided to go home and their secret was being divulge to the real family of the boy.My friend accepted all the humiliations and criticism by the people around her.
On the other hand, she;s really great for she never think of aborting the baby inside her womb.As o her she's almost going to deliver her baby, would you consider her fool for doing such actions? what do you think i the best possible way for her to overcome that typhoon in her life?
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9 responses
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
A secret affair is beautiful if it doesn't do blunder to people around you. It is beautiful , if it will be keep as confidential as it could be. It is a divine thing between two souls , which other people will never understand.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
Your friend is great for she justice to the life inside her womb. I salute her not because of her being a mistress but because she's a real woman , facing her new responsibility with heads up. Her being a mistress is not a reason that she will no longer be the best mom ! She is still the best young mom and you as her friend must be proud of her and must lend a hand , for this is the phase of her life where she needs a friends understanding and acceptance.
@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
I had a secret affair once at the first company that I worked in. We were the talk of the town even though we tell no one with our relationship. By the way, she's married and I'm not. So it went on for months until we both resigned and proceed with different path. Good thing, she didn't get pregnant and we parted ways just like nothing happened. in the case of your friend, that was really hard. I admire her willingness to fight for the child. I know she's really hurt but I think the best thing to do is that you should always be there for her and comfort her. Time heals, so it would be better to move on and face tomorrow, not the past. She should also consider moving to another area where no once recognizes her and start a new life. As for the guy, it's the guys decision to where he should be. He now has two families and has offspring to both sides. It's best that whoever that he did not chose, he should continue supporting the child financially and emotionally.
@olliekobra1 (1825)
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3 Nov 12
This sounds like a sad story really , it also sounds like your friend and her child are the real victims here because she was unaware that the man she liked was married but I suppose you cant help who you fall in love with. I think its great she has kept the baby unfortunately whatd done is done so she needs to move on and Care for her child the best she can. The married man still has a responsability to the child and I hope he pays his way and is a good father
@riyauro (6421)
• India
3 Nov 12
that was bad on the boys part. he should not have done it. I don't know I will have to think twice about this. If i were in the situation I would let go of the married man because it is the least thing i would ever do to break a family. I am not that bad to do that. okay when the baby comes in the picture. i would think again and again about it. I tell you I am still thinking so when i finish thinking i will let you know..
..Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
..Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. @gilz20 (12)
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
Secret affair...I never dream of to be one of the thousands of people having an secret affair.I can say so it is a secret affair the feelings of mine toward to my couzin.It's a big mistake to be inlove with him.But, it feel so great and happiness.That's how i feel everytime we meet.I know it will not be forever and if that time will come that he fall in love to someone more deserve to his love and to make their own family then i will let him go.That's love,and i won't become the hindrance of his happiness.But for now,as long we love each other.I will love him as much as my life 'coz i know he will the same for me.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Nov 12
It depends to her on how is she going to recover just to overcome those disasters in her life. But to tell you honestly the wife can actually file a case to both of them since that is part of adultery. She must accept the consequences that she have done even though she doesn't have any knowledge. Innocence of the law excuses no one. If she is facing the criticisms and humiliation then she must take the consideration of the legal wife of how does she felt about this matter that her husband has own mistress? Isn't that is big insulting to the legal wife of what her husband did to her?
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
3 Nov 12
this is really embarassing whom soever it may be but secret affair is ruled out and it should never be encouraged by anyone,it requires humiliation to the core
