My Facebook Relationship

Even if you still didn't meet the person you should trust him anyway. Because what is the purpose of accept him in such relationship if you don't trust him. In relationship trust is very important no matter where the person you love and not matter what his jobs or no matter what his standing in life. You must trust him because you agreed to enter into relationship with him...

from what u said, u already getting attached with him. i think u better make your relationship a step forward by meet that guy, to know about him maybe u said u already know him just by texting all that, but are u sure that he never lie to u. sometime talk face to face is much better compare to just listen or in writing

Hi... My advice to you would be very plain and simple; without going into a lot of details... 'Just set up a date and meet him ASAP..' Make sure you meet in a public place e. g. a coffee shop... Online relations are good upto an extent, but they can't go on forever without personal meetings... It is not a business, it is matter of heart, if not exaggerated... So, before it gets too serious, set up a coffee date... It would be bad, if you got emotionally involved and if the partner does not meet your expectations... Good Luck! Let us know how it goes... :-)

What had happened to you is very interesting. It's more interesting if you have relation with someone abroad. It's very challenging and will teach you a lot of things about how to manage feelings, how to manage love when being apart, how to confirm loyalty and many more. I have my brother in-law ends up his online realationship with a marriage. I at first laugh at him but at the end I said I really respect both of them for being loyal to each other. Cause in my belief, nothing online is true. So, both of them have proved that I was wrong in one part. I really respect how they can tight each other to hold on their love though there's a lot of challenge to be in love online. One can fall in love everyday online.

I can understand what you are going through. Constant chatting with a person, no matter how far he may be or even if you really haven't seen him personally could lead to a serious relationship. BUT, you should also need to be sure of what you feel. Maybe you just feel lonely and that you are just using him to fill in the void and that love isn't really there. And also, if it is not asking you too much, learn not to be attached to a person that you really do not know personally. A lot of people that is into online chatting could not be telling 100% about their real identity and it is so easy to make up stories. Just to be safe, know the person well and it is much better to see him personally, but make sure that you will meet him with a friend with you. You know how some bad people who used Facebook in luring girls into something dreadful. Keep safe!

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :))) Hey ho! hahaha :)) aHem!!! I didn't heard from you from a long time and this is what I got to know! Hey you know me, I have been a fan :$ haha :) I know the feeling, been hurt but- honestly I don't regret :) I wouldn't know how it go if I didn't try of course. Whether it will pursue or end, there should always be a start :) Good luck and glad if you're feeling happy! :) Pls update? From where? how!? Stay happy in love dear ;)

This is an increasingly popular trend and as time goes by more people are becoming involved in online relationships. It is something that I have never even considered doing and it certainly would not suit me at all. Nevertheless, despite whatever advice people may give you there is no right or wrong. It all depends on the individual person and whether this is what they want. There will certainly be people who have started a successful relationship online and others that have found it to be problematic, but that applies to all relationships irrespective of how they have met.

Before I start saying anything about this relationship I hope you will perform a reality checklist here. 1. Are you aware that there's about 80 million fictitious and false accounts in FB? 2. How good are you with computers to be able to determine if the other party is REALLY in wherever he says he is, in this case America? 3. How sure are you that the other side is really who he said he really is? Even high profiled celebrities have had their long distance romances turned into a financial debt nightmare. 4. On what basis are you building your trust on him? His kind, polite, romantic and thoughtful words? His touching video calls? Is it any different from one of the pages of a romantic novel and a highly recommended YouTube production? Nothing beats the real deal - experience. Online and offline experiences can be worlds apart like a day and a night. Take the wrong step you will find yourself at the receiving end of an Elm Street nightmare instead of an episode in Sleepless in Seattle. If your house that you live in is not built in one day and online, so should your relationship. Don't just be careful but be VERY careful here.

It's never easy handling online relationships. Human beings are born and raised to interact with people physically, not through cyberspace, or something intangible as that. It can be hard to understand that kind of relationship you have. There are so many people around us if we really want to start a relationship. And you have to ask yourself why you even started an online relationship in the first place so that you'll know why you're still in that relationship. Was it because you wanted to find someone better than the people surrounding you? Was it because you wanted to try it out because a lot of people have carried online relationships? Was it because this person you've had a relationship with was someone that you've been speaking to since forever, and you're feeling close to him? That kind of thing. Figure out why you even agreed to be in an online relationship in the first place. Then ask yourself, where is this relationship taking you? Are you guys going to meet up in person? When is it going to be? You can't always invest everything in relationships with someone you can't see and touch for real. You're missing the biggest part of your relationship. Actually being able to look into his eyes without anything in the way (like a computer screen for one thing). So if you're telling yourself you can't trust him, well, of course. That's because you don't see him in person. That's what's missing. And until that piece is in place, you'll never feel like you can trust this person, that you always have to hold on to something for yourself in case anything goes wrong, that you need to have a solid grip on your surroundings.

Trust is really important on that kind of relationship. If you are really in doubt then you have to set a date for each other so that both of you will see in person. Have a nice day my friend and be careful.

If I were in your case, I wouldn't take online relationships seriously. If you don't trust this person why stay in a relationship with him? Honestly, I don't see the point. But since you already have feelings then you choose either: you stop the relationship while it's still early or you stay in it and endure. My advice is if he really loves you truly then he should come for you. Meet each other in person, if he can't then he is not worth your time. If you are patient you can wait but that's something I wouldn't recommend. Online relationships are usually just for fun and not serious. you seem to really like him already.

Chatting or contacting to a person online doesn't show his true nature or his personality. Face to face talks and watching him will only help you to realize him. I will ask you to meet him and see how good he is, If you find too good the go with the relation. may god bless you. Good luck

I haven't, because I feel the same way as you do/did about online relationships. It's hard to trust a person who you can't see and hear... they could be anything, they could have a fake photo, they could be robbers and perverts... and I don't feel satisfied with a relationship when I don't see true reactions and emotions, it's important for me. I don't think an online relationship has point to them, unless you meet him. If you don't, it's not a proper one, and you may be stuck into this thing forever, depriving yourself from the chance to meet a proper partner in real life. So you should meet him, if you want to have a proper relationship (of coursem with a friend or a relative in the nearby in emergency).

I think for me, there is nothing wrong with that set up or relationship. But, it is better for you to meet personally and not just seeing and talking each other on line. Presence is much better for both couples or lovers.If the two of you really loves each other and are brave to continue that set up, you must talk about seeing each other, not that often but at least once in your life you have met.

An expiration date for your relationship? Uh....... First of all, if you don't trust the man why are you in ANY sort of relationship with him? Second, expiration dates are for coupons, contracts, and food. I'm sorry to sound rude, but I am going to be brutally honest. You need to figure out what a relationship is before you try entering into one.

Hi friend, good to know about your new fb relationship. As you mentioned we must be very careful with online relationship, anyway you are very much attached with him, as well as he is also interested with you and don't want to leave you, so you can continue your relationship. All the best

Keeping contact with him in reality not always onlines, then you would know each other better and you would know whether to continue or not?

I would never have a relationship online. i have sen so many horror stories. do your self a favor and meet them in person before you go any further. its much more safe that way. good luck to you. hop[e it works out well for you.

I agree with ZOEY...a relationship should not have an expiration date...if you don't trust the person that you are with then you shouldn't be with them. There's nothing wrong with meeting a partner online. I met my husband online and that was almost 9 years ago and we're still going strong...granted that was back when AOL chat rooms were in and we met by chance, became friends online, eventually met and the rest is history....bottom line, if you want to be in a relationship even online then do it, but don't put an expiration on it or stay with someone if you don't trust them....

One of my friends dated a guy for two years over the internet then finally married him. It can work if you want it to. I'd just be ready to wait longer and also don't limit yourself to only using facebook. Skype is a great way to stay in touch with someone you care about.