What Do You Think About Marriage at Nineteen?

Most of the couple being separated are age younger. It might be dangerous to get marriage in that age. Because woman will change at the age of 26 and beyond. I don't know if that is true. The statistics is greater than those marriage at the right age. But whatever the outcome of the study it's not that matter. What matter most is the love and promises that they swear before the witness and in the eyes of God. No one will separate them if they follow the commandment of God and have a wide understanding in every angle of life.

First off congrats and I hope you two have a wonderful like together with your son.. I was married at 17.. So I can relate to what you are talking about.. Not being able to just go off with your friends or explore life on your own.. There is nothing wrong with the choice you made.. I would never suggest to someone to get married that young.. I would tell them that the first couple years out of the nest should be use to explore the world around them; getting into their own routines.. etc etc

I am with my fiance from I was 13 , and its like we are married . People always think we are but even if we marry tomorrow we will not have any children until we are in our 30s because we want to enjoy just each other for now . We are both in college and I still make time for my friends because we all have things in common . Except for one of my friend that got pregnant in high school we dont really talk because we have different life . We can be free but she always have to go home . So i dont think its marriage that really changes things , I think its more about children making the change and people mind set that they cannot continue their dreams such as finishing school etc .

Congratulations for a very happy marriage! Not all teen marriages could be experiencing the same coz well, we know that most early marriages would be caused by an unwanted pregnancy. I got married at 22. I was just a few months away from graduation. My husband and I were able to graduate, but I guess, it would be a lot better if we waited long enough before we decided to settle down. We were not ready but had to coz I already had a son then.

You are lucky enough. I have a lot of friends who suffered early pregnancy and early marriage during our teenage and now that we are older enough, they always reminding me that be in a marriage life is not that easy. Though I am not yet still thinking about it.

I just married about last year when I was 20 years old. now I'm 22 and have 1,5 months baby. for man, marry in 20 is very young, but I take this decision because I have been 2+ years together with my girlfriend who is 20 too. it's difficult in our first year of marriage because we both still young and so temperamental sometimes

I am not against it, but it requires maturity. In the US, children are spoiled and selfish. For most teenage kids, they simply are not ready for the blessings and struggles that come with marriage. They want to party, and mess around, and waste their time, because the love themselves more than anything else. Getting married with that attitude is ruins. It will ruin them. Very sad. We used to have a culture that celebrated great family. Now we don't care, and celebrate our selfishness. But for those who are mature, getting married early is a good thing.

Hi you are very lucky When the love there that the time to do it I'm 50. Still single still have not found her and still want a Family It look like you will be doing good

I doubt many people nowadays marry at a young age. In many cultures girls get married as soon as they get their period which already can be at the age of 11 or 12 years old. This is already going on since ages. In my country people are not getting married at a young age. It's even not possible to do so. If there is a good reason (and you are not an adult) you need permission from your parents and even the queen. Most people get married if they are over 25 or older (like my parents). This was normal since they had to make a carreer first and save money. I live in a country where it always was normal to work, make money, save it so you have enough to get married, pay for your house(hold) and get children. Nowadays many people don't care about being married anymore. No matter if you want or have children. But if it comes to getting married I think everybody should know/decide him-/herself what it good for him/her. The first time I became a mother I just turned 18 years old. I never regret that either. I don't believe that young mothers or young marriage is doomed to fail or make worser parents or your kids end up on the street as a junky. All my kids are intelligent, high educated, do very well, are very creative and have a lot of self esteem. They accept me the way I am exactly as I do accept them. Just like you I finished my school/education as well and made carreer. These goals I set myself, nothing to thank anyone else or my husband for.

It was not not allowed here by our law of getting married before 20 for a woman.Nowadays I think people don't like getting married at a early age.Wish you happy!

You are just so lucky for having that maturity. Some at your age , some can hardly manage if having that kind of situation. Mostly end up i breaking because of that early marriage , early responsibilities. To some also its is like an innate to them , thinks maturely.

Age doesn't matter as long as it is legal. But make sure you know the responsibilities. You have enough money to support your own family. I think being married at such an early age is not a sin. As long as you love each other. So, let it be. God created us to love one another and multiply right? That's why we have our family to support and guide us. Not stopping us from love, from getting married. But before anything else, As what I've stated above that think ahead because there's a lot of responsibilities, problems and challenges that you have to deal with, its part of our life.

getting marry at ur young age is almost same with those getting marry for 25+, if u are sure about ur feelings then why take it so long before u regret everything. it doesnt matter what is the reason the thing is u love each other period.

I believe it can work however in most cases there is no reason to rush things and put that extra pressure on their relationship. Also not everyone is ready for marriage at the age of 19. You and your husband sound very mature however most people I know around that age are not mature enough to handle such a huge life decision like that. Plus also many people at that age tend to want to get a lot of partying out of their system which doesn't work well with most married couples.

I got married when I was 18 and we got divorced 12 years and 3 kids later. These days people marry later in life. My son was in his 30's when he got married. A child is the best thing that could happen to you.

I don't think there's anything wrong about getting married at the age of 19. In fact, you can get married at any age at all as long as you know that you're ready for the commitment. If you're not ready then even at the age of 40, you shouldn't be married. So, it's really up to the couple who is getting married. Some people mature faster than others and some will act like children even at 50.

There is nothing wrong to get married at that early age since you are already legal to get married. I have a cousin who got married recently at age of 18. But at least she is already at the legal age to decide for her own. Studies is not a problem because you can still continue that as long as you can manage it.

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. I know what it feels like being getting married at such an age but most importantly u have got the support of your husband to continue your studies which is very encouraging to hear. I know many girls and guys are getting married at such an age. There is no issue in getting married early but i think they should take some time, get settled, make themselves stable and secured enough and then they should plan about their marriage. What say?

You are brave,dear, I should say. When I was 19 years old, I just finished my high school and entered the university. I think if I had chance to marry I must be afraid of it, as I feel I can't face many problems of marriage. I got married at the age of 26, so I could handle many problems I met. Enjoy yourself!