Sometimes Being Single is so Sad...

Hello Miyazaki... no, being single should not make you sad... be careful in choosing a boyfriend... a person whom you would live with as long as you are alive. For the mean time focus on your job. If ever one day you would wake up and you are still single say thanks to God. In the Catholic church there are three vocations in life (a) live a married life, (b) stay single, and (c) join the religious life.

No, of course not. I believe that there is that special someone who is really meant for you, so you should not just settle. But i guess you should also date other guys first, so you would have experience..

its very depressing and makes you feel bad,i agree,i experienced it

I've been in the same situation as you. I was almost 23 when I met my boyfriend (now we've been together for almost half a year), and I didn't even have a kiss since my birth until then (nor was a proper guy interested in me at all). And I heard stuff from people saying that if you don't get a boyfriend until 22, you are a psychological wreck and blah-blah-blah, and I believed it, and I thought it was true, and I was gonna die young with 40 cats :). But it wasn't, and now I know that I just had to wait, because it came later for me than for an average person. You should not give up, and wait for your Mr. Right to come. Don't settle with someone you don't like that way, because you could live with him for a while, but later, you and him both would be driven crazy, because he would desire your love, and you could get really annoyed and even disgusted by him. You might have just been unlucky, not a person who is not designed for love. Keep your head up, and I wish the best for you!

You're only 23, you're still so young to be talking like you're already doomed. Being single doesn't have to be sad, besides, what made you think that by being in a relationship, you wouldn't feel sadness anymore? Being in a relationship doesn't mean you'll be all lovey dovey and everything's going to be all roses and happiness. It takes more than finding the right person to "be happy". It's being the right person as well. Are you already prepared for it? Are you already matured enough to take it, or would you rather experience the infamous heartbreaks and all that before you finally meet "the one"? Wouldn't it be better that you have enjoyed your life as a single lady before you commit to someone and be well equipped to make the relationship work? Just a few thoughts to ponder. And don't worry, your time will come. Each one of us have our own time and chance to experience that love. For now, enjoy and be the right person.

You should start enjoying being single. An emotionally stable person shouldn't care about his/her "relationship status".

oh you are still so young and there is not much need to hurry. i had my first bf earlier than you were but then it wasn't such a big deal and it could have worked better if i was older and more mature to handle rather than have my emotions cloud me.

You're still young my dear and nothing to worry about having no boyfriend since birth. I have lots of friends who are single and much older than you are. Thu, I can say they have past experiences with relationship- and those bad experiences made them decide to stay single till now- thu they are waiting for a new love and their right prince charming, but I can say that they are indeed much older than you are. The oldest among my single friends is 38 and the youngest is 27- they are good looking girls and successful on their chosen careers- but never regretted being single till now. So, don't rush up- wait for the right love at the right time.

Being NBSP(no boyfriend since birth) is an advantage. That made you precious. Don't be sad coz you have a plenty of friends around you. You will meet your mr. right at the right time. God has a plan for you. So don't be so sad, just enjoy life and be good. Have a nice day!

Ohhh God you are worry in 23 years old dont worry 23 years is not much more and why need boyfriend direct find a partner means a person for marriage. dont worry your parents will search the partner for you.

I'd say enjoy being single while you are. Relationship will come naturally when you least expect it. No need to hurry and force it on yourself; besides you are young...

Your just 23 and you started thinking that it's time for some one to come in.i'm almost 29 and haven't find any one yet and still looking. Don't upset your self that you are not love able,may be some one is expecting you to love him. So try but don't try too hard coz in this way you will end up heart broken.

23 years old? I think you are still young, and your mr. right is not coming, that's all. You should hold such opportunity if he comes. By the way, I have a friend who is already 27 years old and haven't had a boyfriend...... Have a nice day.

Not only you is still single but me to. A lot of my friend is a girl. Some of them want to make a love with me but i say for them i'm not ready. I still not ready to make special relationship with someone. I want successful in my life first.