I have something wrong with Getting well with somebody
By alexpreston
@alexpreston (136)
China
2 responses
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
5 Nov 12
In order for anyone to be able to help you with this, they need to know some of the situation to be able to give an honest opinion or advice.
If nothing else get with this person and you both list your problems on separate paper. Read them to each other and discuss them. If it gets to heated, call time and on to the next one in the list. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't..
Hope you all can work out what is going on...
Oh one more thing, some people just don't want to work out things, they just want to leave and have nothing more to do with the other person. It happens.. its a reality some of us have a hard time accepting.
@alexpreston (136)
• China
6 Nov 12
I am a student in a university. When I was a freshman, I study in current university(ShanDong University)..but when I am a sophomore, I went to another university called NWPU. But now I am back to Shan Dong University, there is a big barrier between the students there and me, they treat me as strangers.
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
6 Nov 12
Oh so you feel like you are being ignored at the school you are in now. That happens to people.
You were gone for a year and to come back and expect open arms, you can't. You need to give them patients and time to get to know who you are again. You probably also have changed and do not realize it. Get your studies done, make it through school with great grades and graduate, that to me is more important. Show everyone you can and will do it. Doesn't matter how your treated as long as you get the work done and get awesome grades to graduate. 
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Nov 12
since you say nothing about the situation I can only ask you this: why you wnat to get well with that person? Are you sure that person wants to get well with you too? Since it's possible that not being close with you anymore can be a relieve/solution to that other person as well. For a good relationship you need 2 people.
@alexpreston (136)
• China
6 Nov 12
Thank you for replying. I seem to understand. What you said is quite true. Why do I want to get well with them? They only care for themselves.
