I just need to know....

Well, that is kinda stupid of them, well at least in my point of view. Why they sleep on someone and get laid, but then something went wrong they cry for the mistake that they made. For me, someone should sleep for someone that they really like. Have a nice day my friend.

I guess these things happen in our society because of the lack of morality and stability in the family. Most people who you hear things like these happen to are those without a good foundation in the family. Those who feel that they are alone in this world and mostly those who have no belief in God. It's really sad to be in this situation most especially for the baby or the born child because obviously the mother doesn't really love the father and the child isn't really welcome in the first place.

That does seem rather silly doesn't it? I'm afraid logic gets lost, especially these modern days of less personal responsibility than is perhaps best for society, and our children (or granchildren)..

I can never understand why women do this either. It is a sad thing most definitely and I hear about it all the time. Where women sleep with other men and then they get pregnant and they slept with someone else. Then later it come to find out that the person that they truly want to be with is not the father. I don't understand why women put themselves in that situation. I would never put myself in that situation and I think at the time, most women don't know what they are doing when they are sleeping with other men and sometimes it may be at the time a mistake that should have never happened. But then they have no morals as some have mentioned above. I think if you never put yourself in the situation as that, then you would not be crying about the guy who you want to be the father of your baby not being the father of the baby. Because he would already be the father of the baby no question about it. I feel really bad for the children that are in the situation like this.

They are misguided and confused. And the men that slept with them took advantage of that. But in the end, it's the girl's fault for not taking better care of herself and not respecting herself.

In this kind of situation, it's really hard to think of who's to blame. Some says it's because of the parent's up bringing. Other say that it's the group of friends that a person has. While other says it's the change of the society and lack of morality. But in my own opinion, there's no one here to blame but the person herself. Because it was actually her choice of doing it without even thinking about the consequences she might get after.