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Hiya jheyan, I know what you mean but it does not always work that way. Even if you are left on your own to sort things out you might well very need a helping hand, some advice from someone. But another truth is that you do become stronger for being left on your own to get through things. Me I have been left on my own to sort things out since the day I could walk and it does help to have a know how of your own to get round things that people have dumped you with what I mean here are situations of any kind. Bit complicated to explain in detail but yes you are right you know sometimes its better to walk off and make other people learn to do things for themselves in the end it is worth it. I have made my two after much deliberation do things for themselves and although they protested to the sky and back again after they were different for having learned how to do something. Since I taught them things there is no stopping them although they do reproach me for having left them "high and dry" to do things for themselves. They did sort of I say sort of come to their senses not altogether though.