Do you get frustrated when you have to be at home for most of the day?

United States
November 6, 2012 7:28pm CST
Most of us enjoy being at home when it's by choice and we have the option of leaving the house if we wanted too. Then staying at home is alright. But do you get frustrated when you have to stay at home because of circumstances. I have been feeling really frustrated about this lately. Especially with the weather getting colder.We only have one car and my husband takes that to work for most of the day. For example today he was gone from 7:30 this morning until 6:30 this evening. That makes for a really long day inside the house trying to plan more things for my daughter and I too do. I have been telling him for the longest time that we need two vehicles. It would be nice for my daughter and I to get out of the house more. Since we moved i can no longer drop him off at work and keep the car. I'm hoping that I will be able to get a full time job soon so I can save to get another car.
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@celticeagle (168856)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Nov 12
I hope that you get your second vehicle. It is hard for families to do with only one car. Can't you get out and go for a walk? Are there no buslines near you? I thinks walks in a new area are quite an adventure. FOr me I like to stay home. I have social anxiety so staying home for four or five days at a time doesn't bother me at all.
@celticeagle (168856)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Nov 12
Can't you plan ahead and take the car? Make it a special day where you go to the pet store and maybe for an ice cream or something. I don't blame you for feeling anxiety about staying in so much. It isn't good for you or your daughter. I think if your husband understands this perhaps you can work something out. There are people who share the ride to work too.
• United States
7 Nov 12
Unfortunately there aren't any bus stations where I live. There is a taxi service but it cost $10 just to drive to the other side of town. I'm not sure if that is the norm. But I think in big cities it doesn't cost that much. I have a young daughter and we use to go for walks and play outside everyday for a little bit. But now the weather is getting colder. I just think that it would be nice to be able to have the vehicle to go get different items we need, take her for a walk at the mall or take her to the pet store. That way it breaks up the day instead of having to find things to do at the house all day long. I feel that I'm the opposite like I have anxiety from staying in the house all day especially when my daughter has a bad day.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
11 Nov 12
I would love to be able to spend more time at home, but I have to agree that it makes a great difference if you have to be there and it is not your choice. There is something about not having a choice that always seems to make the alternative seem desirable. If we are out at work all day then we would love to be at home. If we have to stay home all day then we would prefer to be at work. I suppose it is our natural resentment to anything that is not our choice.
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• United States
24 Nov 12
Yes I agree with you. I'm still working on getting out of my current situation. My mood though lately has been a little better. I think sometimes I get depressed because I have to stay inside all day and by the time my husband gets home and we have supper it's late to try and do anything outside. I look forward to the winter being over and nice weather coming again.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
7 Nov 12
Oh yeah, that is definitely inconvenient for both of you. For the question you were asking, I pretty much enjoy at home, but if I want to go out, I definitely want to go out, and do my things if necessary. In your circumstance, I hope that you can save enough money to get yourself another vehicle, whether new or used. Good luck for that. I think it will be better to have 2 vehicles at least, so you or your husband could have a spare one.
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• United States
8 Nov 12
Yeah having two vehicles would definitely be better. Especially if something happens to this one we would be in a lot of trouble since it is our only vehicle. I hope that either I can get a full time job or wait until we get our tax money back and get another one. I will feel so much better when we have two vehicles.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
Initially, I was really frustrated for being riveted on my seat at home the whole day. For valid reasons I stay at home just to accompany my Dad or my wife, not that they need me physically but what matters is that they have someone to talk to and will remind them on some things. Now, I need to deal with it, and days will passed that I may have a regular job, for me to stay outdoors most of the time, hopefully. Good luck to us. Thanks
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• United States
7 Nov 12
I hope that whatever your family situation requires you are able to keep doing that. I hope that I will be able to find a full time job hear in the near future. It would be so much easier to save money and take care of the things that need taken care of with more income coming in. Thanks
@vmartre (31)
7 Nov 12
If you have a hobby, you will always have a good moment staying at home, and you will love that moment. I have several hobbies, like watching sports on TV, watching a good movie, organize my postal stamps collection, reading a book, play an online game or you can have fun myLoting. You can decide leaving for a 30 minute jogging and return for a great moment of peace after working out. As you can see, life is not boring when you stay at home.
• United States
7 Nov 12
I agree that having hobbies helps. For me though I have a young daughter and I don't have too much free time for hobbies. I'm working on spending more time with her and doing activities with her. But trying to have activities all throughout the day to keep her entertained and busy requires some money to be spent on craft items, etc. We use to go outside and play everyday but now that it's getting colder that's not an option often. But for individuals who have the flexibility to do what they want staying at home doing what they like wouldn't be bad at all.
• United States
7 Nov 12
I think there's a difference between occasionally staying at home and being stuck at home every day. Whenever things are the result of our choice and/or we know that they will end soon, I think we have a much better time accepting them. It's really hard when you want to go out and do something, but you simply aren't able to. What do you do to cope with being at home? How old is your daughter?
• United States
8 Nov 12
I try to do different type of work online like working on mylot and other sites that I make a little extra money from. Take care of things around the home, and plan activities to do with my daughter throughout the day. She is a year and a half. You can understand how I feel about being at home. I think it would be nice to be able to break up the day by doing something outside the house. It would make the day not feel so long. I'm with my daughter from the time she gets up until she goes to bed. Then I go to work. That makes for a long day for the both of us being in the home that long. And by the time my husband gets home she's too tired and starting to get cranky for us to try and go do anything then. I'm hoping to get more work so that we can get a second vehicle. We really do need one. It gets kind of depressing staying inside all the time. Especially with winter around the corner.
@silentwill (1685)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
Any excuse I can get to stay at home I'd gladly take it. Of course if I didn't have a full time job or had no job at all I may feel differently but as I have and it's one that requires me to be away from home half of the 24 hours per day, being stuck at home for whatever circumstances may be a blessing for me.
• United States
7 Nov 12
Yeah I understand what you mean. I only work part time and so all day from the time my daughter gets up until the time she goes to bed I'm with her and then I go to work. That makes for a long time of trying to plan different activities to keep us both busy. I think it would be so nice to have a second vehicle to break up the day. That way we could go get things we need, stop at like the pet store and then enjoy the rest of the day at home. We just need some more and different things to break up the days activities so they don't go by so fast.
@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
7 Nov 12
Like you, I always liked being home if I knew I had the option to leave when and if I wanted. When we had one car or the kids were sick or some other reason I couldn't go anywhere, I would get frustrated! It kind of felt like I was trapped. Is there someone you know that could pick you up and take you somewhere a couple days a week?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
I am the kind of person who would just be fine being at home all the time. I was too sheltered by my parents when I was young. And so even if I grew up, I would just rather be home than be out with friends. Now that I am a mom, same scenario. It could be crazy at times to be just seeing the four corners of the house, but well, that is just how it is. My life is a bore!
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• United States
7 Nov 12
Yeah just seeing the inside of the house all the time can drive me crazy. I think that it would be nice to have a second vehicle so that we can at least have the option of going somewhere. Not that I would want to be gone all day but it's just nice to be able to break up the day. I'm home from the time my daughter gets up until the time she goes to bed. That is a lot of time to try and plan different activities to keep us both busy. Then I go to work. Sometimes at our local library they have an hour for story time,music,etc. It's just nice to be able to go to things like that,it makes the day not feel so long for the both of us.
@Raine38 (12390)
• United States
7 Nov 12
In my situation, I fall under the first category. But on the earlier part, I was frustrated and I think I'm slowly getting cabin fever, lol! . That's when I discovered the wonders of the Internet and online job thing. But I agree on the part where you feel the need to get a job once more not only for the getting out of the house part but we can all use the extra money. Once my current project is done, I will also be back on the work force. Then I will be missing my days when I'm home bound.