Do you discuss Religion with your friends???

@bizness (866)
United States
November 6, 2012 8:59pm CST
OK, this is such a touchy subject. Ya know they say never talk politics or religion with your friends. Now me personally, I am fortunate enough to have friends that we can agree to disagree on these subjects. Although our discussions do get very heated at times.
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@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
7 Nov 12
Yes I talk about religion and politics with some of my friends.. Matter a fact I think I have an easier time talking to them then my birth mom and her boyfriend; just lots of yelling and I am too young to understand.. (Im 30) I actually like talking to them about these subjects. It is nice to get a new view or idea about the specific subtopic.. My knowledge grows and so does my friends.. Even if its something we do not agree on it is good to understand other people's point of view..
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I agree totally. I stated in another post that I too enjoy hearing the different opinions. And to be honest, there have been times that I have listened to another viewpoint and it has indeed made me stop and think.
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• United States
8 Nov 12
I have ran into a lot of converstations where I had to stop and think; or allow it to just circle around in my head for awhile before responding.. My Aunt taught me this lesson; it took quite awhile for me to actually get the concept and use it.. But I am glad that I have learned it.
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
"Listening" and being able to listen to another viewpoint without getting angry or staying angry, I think is a talent we have to work on to learn.
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• Philippines
14 Nov 12
yes oftentimes...We cannot live without proclaiming his glory how Almighty he is.I'm just lucky and fortunate that I found them.Its just so bright and very peaceful. I'm longing for that and now I finally got to know them. I am very glad that there are lot of people who talked about GOD.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
25 Nov 12
blink69nix0 I agree it is great to feel free to speak of the wonders of God.Some are embarrassed to do so and that is too bad...
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
@ stary1... Why would I deny my GOD who created me.Just say whatever they want to say.My life is always like this because of my faith but no worries cus GOd always defended and protected me at all times. I'm not ashamed to proclaim and confess that I'm in love with GOD.He is my life and everything.As the scripture says if you proclaim his name publicly he will proclaim you that "you are mine" but if you are embarrass to say his name during judgement he will deny you. My GOD is coming..soon
@bizness (866)
• United States
26 Nov 12
It is wonderful that both of you are not ashamed to proclaim your love for God. I feel the same way. I talk about God on a daily basis,not because I am trying to "preach" but because he is a part of my life just as breathing is, my job, my family, and it just comes 'easy' to talk about him.
@livewyre (2450)
13 Nov 12
It's difficult to have a meaningful conversation in the normal day to day interactions, but we should be able to demonstrate our faith through the way we lead our lives. However, I believe in being an 'apologetic' for ones faith ie. I believe I am able to explain every aspect of my faith - even those parts that people believe are hypocrisy or contradictions or just not explicable through logic. We should be able to demonstrate our faith in the things we do, and be able to explain our faith when called upon to do so. It does not have to cause conflict if you do it in love rather than through zealous evangelism.
@bizness (866)
• United States
14 Nov 12
This is so true. I think sometimes people mean well but they get so caught up in what they believe that it comes across as overbearing.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
25 Nov 12
bizness LOL I think we quickly learn with which friends we can discuss religion or politics and with which friends we need to void the subjects. I personally love to discuss with those who disagree with me.. I learn so much more with those who disagree with me than with those who agree and think as I do. The problem is when some get so emotionally involved they can't tolerate others views and come across as 'my way or the highway'..I have always felt these type are rather insecure in their beliefs...so I avoid them
@bizness (866)
• United States
26 Nov 12
How true! I also love a good 'discussion' and love to learn how others think and believe. It's always very interesting.
@samar54 (2454)
• Egypt
7 Nov 12
Why not ? Yes ,I discuss religion with my friends
@bizness (866)
• United States
7 Nov 12
well I ask because sometimes people get offended very easily when you discuss religion. Most people, at least I've found, feel their religion is the right one and everyone elses is wrong, thus arguements insue and feelings get hurt. Of course, that doesn't mean it happens with you or your friends. Some people can actually carry on a discussion and be passionate without being just down right rude.
@samar54 (2454)
• Egypt
7 Nov 12
I agree , some people insult your belief and accuse your prophet that he is false prophet , when you try to say about origin of their religion , they think that you insult their belief and thier prophet.
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Exactly that's why I'm always very careful when I bring it up.
• India
26 Nov 12
I never participate in any discussions about religion with any of my friends. Every individual like his/her religion. And everyone one has their perspective towards their and other religion and I don't wanna have a fight with anyone on this topic. Coming to politics ya I do discuss it with friends.
@bizness (866)
• United States
26 Nov 12
So true. As I've stated already, it really depends on your friends. I have those I would never discuss it with because they are so passionate about it and believe their way is the only way. Then on the other hand, I do have those that I can discuss anything with. I guess we have to pick and choose our discussions, the topics and with whow we will discuss it.
@imbrod (268)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Nov 12
Yes I do because Christian should always be prepared to explain his faith 1Pt 3:15
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Yes you are right, as a Christian, I am prepared to talk about it but you have to remember you don't want to seem like you are 'pushing' your faith on someone. When you do they instantly become defensive and 'don't want to hear it'. I believe as a Christian you should be there to discuss it and explain it when asked or called on to do so.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Nov 12
I seldom discuss religion with my friends, but I respect them for their religion and beliefs. Every religion has its own features. And there is so much to learn about if you are interested. Among people I know, these two religions are popular, Jesus Christ and Buddhism. I am interested to know both of them and sometimes I can hear a little about them from conversaions. Thanks for the discussion.
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
You are very welcome and thank you for replying! I don't know very much about Buddhism but have done some reading and it seems very interesting.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I'm lucky. Most of my friends are members of the same congregation as I. I don't even know any one who does not consider themselves a Christian. Guess I live a sheltered life.
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Lol no not really a sheltered life, just one with a good foundation around you.
• United States
7 Nov 12
I am like you, I have friends that will sit, to discuss or debate a subject.. yes even religion too. Have had many debates and conversations with family and friends. We do respect each other in our own faith. We are not trying to convert anyone, we just like to express our opinion on certain things. So what happens is some do research to prove their points, which brings others to do the same. Then get back together and have another discussion in how valid our research material is...lol It can get complicated, yet by ends night we are all huggin and wishing each a safe journey..
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Now you see, that's how you do it. Like I said, agree to disagree. And I love to hear different views, customs, ideas. I thoroughly enjoy a good debate at times. Thank you for sharing!
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Sure, I discuss religion with my friends even when it gets them angry and screaming at me. So often the most learning comes with the most drama. Worry not, they are still my friends when we are done. When you try to love them unconditionally, that is hard for anyone to walk away from. Interaction brings learning for all. We should never be afraid or shy away from that.
@bizness (866)
• United States
8 Nov 12
Words of wisdom for sure. Same here, we can discuss it but we have such different views that it does become very heated, but as you said, it's ok in the end.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 12
Yes, but mostly with friends from the same religion. I only have couple of friends who have different faith with me. I never try to talk about religion with them cause it's a sensitive case, maybe they also feel the same. But, if they start it I will glad to make it as a discussion.
@bizness (866)
• United States
14 Nov 12
I am the same way in some respects. I have friends that you just don't approach the subject with because they are just too sensitive and feel their way is the only way.
@cecil04 (409)
• South Africa
9 Nov 12
Yes I do discuss topics about religion with my friends most of the time but we're all open minded to each other beliefs, we even laugh about them sometimes. There is no need for me to get mad because my friend said something bad about my religion because most of the time there just trying find out if there's any fact to some rumor they head from somewhere.
@bizness (866)
• United States
14 Nov 12
Exactly! Consider yourself very lucky because in most cases, unfortunately, religion just isn't something you can discuss with friends.