We have so many needs in our life, but ultimately, all we need is to be Needed!

There was a time, as I was a teenager, I also thought the only thing people need is to be needed. Which is a very selfish attitude and the reason why we help out others (for our own good feeling at the first place) and pick out our friends. If you are not able to help yourself, pamper yourself, live with yourself, understand yourself you will never be able to help out someone else for real. I don't want to be needed anymore. People needed me way too much, still stabbed me in the back, the only thing I want is to be me. To stay with me. I don't like to be needed I want to be free. My kids know that and the grown up ones feel exactly the same way, the 2 youngest also want to be alone most of the time. It's in us to be with us instead of being with others and be needed. That feeling chokes us. My life is busy, so is the life of my kids, we do not miss anything. It's good not to be needed.

i haven't got a supportive family.I haven't got a partner in life. I haven't got a stable job to fit in. Whenever I think all of these, It weigh me down that I am not needed. The only thing thats making my life worth is because I have a son who needs me because if I don't look after him, nobody will. guess it counts to being needed. I help other people once in a while, unplanned,impromptu.