Are they really my friends?

Well they have done other things for instance they said to me when I was unemployed yeah lets all go to Greece or Rome over the summer it will be great! I said I dont have a lot of money but I will invest a lot of time in survey sites and such and save up and I showed them all the places where I was going to get extra money from so we could do referrals and such, I was about half way to the goal to make the payment and they put up an event on Facebook saying "guess what house warming party we just moved into a new house together" First time I heard of it so something I was looking forward to doing they lied about it so that they could move into the house without me instead. They were also going to our local beach on the weekend of my birthday and went going to tell or invite me, I had to ask them if I could come, then I was all like yay going to the beach on my birthday weekend!All their other friends were like happy birthday lovely day for it! They were like "yeah shut up about it already"

I thought it was also kind of uncalled for really it really hurts my feelings but I try to be the bigger person about it though as I think they are really immature in a lot of ways, I wonder if it is because I moved away and made new friends and hobbies whereas they mainly stayed in our home town and didn't explore as much even when I was with them they are like remember that time and that time, they don't seem to have anything new to gossip about. I think I have more in common with the other people they invite to their parties than I do with them as the friends of a friend are so much nicer to me. They meant a lot to me in school but when I come round to think about it I hated school I only started to enjoy myself when I moved away from home to university and from the second half of my first year I became much more outgoing and adventurous person. Maybe they disliked this new me, or were jealous of me having experiences with ought them after we depended on each other for so long during school. All I know is that I really don't have the time patience or energy for these sort of mind games if that is what they are. It happens every time I go visit I just get really annoyed and ticked off its maybe better if I just gradually cut off contact with them and stay closer to the good friends I made throughout my university years. Just cant put up with the childishness of it anymore, I have enough trust issues with ought them making it worse.Its like if I am happy they cannot be.

Oh my. That's a lil' rude. I think you don't deserve such treatment. Well, are they the only friends that you have? Because if not, why not hang out with the other? I mean if you are not comfortable anymore of the way they treat you, then you should stay away from them. You don't have to burry yourself to those friends. But I know that somehow even if they are like that, they really mean a lot to you, am I right? Well, I guess you just have two options, it's either stick with it because you can be used to it, or let go of them, have new friends and go on with your life comfortable and happily. But if I were you, I will make some closure first. I can really smell that they are somehow insecure of who you are, or maybe of what you have, or maybe on whom you are with. I felt that you were an unconscious bullied person. Or insensitive bullied person. well, I just felt that based on your stories. I hope you won't experience such anymore. A lot of huuuggggggsssssss to you dear.

Thank you, I think I am still too mad to confront them rationally think it may be another while before I confront them, they just tick me off so much. Think I should concentrate on my career and other friends instead.

Also I almost forgot congratulations on your achievement. You have so much to be happy about right now don't let anyone ruin it.

Thank you very much your kind words are appreciated a lot. I do have other groups of friends maybe its time to leave them in the past and spend more time with my new friends who love and respect me a lot more.

Thank you so much! Dont worry I wont hold you too it lol. My boyfriend bought me a pair of designer pajamas and my mum and dad are coming over from London to have a proper family party closer to the actual graduation, it is also the fact that degrees are so expensive and the gown rental and the fact that I couldn't get a job while studying and couldn't even apply for job seekers. Was hard work on a lot of different fronts. Just can't be bothered with it anymore is just childish and requires too much energy to deal with.