Long distance love affair...

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I a filipina 26 years of age is in a relationship and currently engaged to a australian guy whos age 47. We have a 23 months old daughter (barely 2 yo). Before, i never thought of having a long distance relationship, it never cross my mind to end up with a guy 21 years older than me. Maybe it is my destiny. I was 23 years of age when I first met my fiance online on some dating sites. Since day one of our friendship we are always eager to find time and talk. We started as friends then we became special friends but we never said we love each other. I think I am inlove but he also never says any about love. Then one day he said he wants to visit me. I was happy that at long last we got to meet. I picked him up in the airport and right there and then he said The Word I LOVE YOU! I was surprised. Stood their for a few minutes. It feels like no ones around and the world stops and the only thing i could hear is both our heart beats. ..... He spent time with me and went to some places for the entire three weeks. After three weeks he finally have to say goodbye for the fist time and back on his home land. I was left there sad because i dont know whats going to happen next or when will he visit me again. After three weeks from the day he left i was shock with the news that i am pregnant . I am happy,excited, worried, and i dont know what to do. I carried my baby in my womb for 9 months with out my fiance by my side. It turned out well and gave birth to a beautiful baby. My fiance visited me for the second time for another three weeks after i gave birth. Left again and i dont know when he is comming back. It was not a smoth sailing relationship too. We have been to rough times. Treats of infidility is there but i was always faithful and patient despite the distance, social media,emails,chat and phone calls are the only means of communication we have. I see to it i dont forget the old ways too, like sending greeting cards and mails through post. The next visit was at amys birthday for another three weeks . Our daughters first birthday, i met her mom as well who gladly came over for a visit. As years goes by i didnt think it would be possible for us to continue this love affair, not married after 3 long years snd been only for 12 weeks all in all. After 6 months of waiting finally i got a visa to australia to visit him this time with our daughter. Our 3 weeks become 3 months until we extended our stay up to 5 months. Wheeeeeeew atlast all my pstience were paid off. Our bond and love become stronger than ever. Our relatiaonship was tested through the years. Now back in my home land i am still hoping that our long distance love affair will end soon and we will start a new journey for our togethernes forever.