Live someone's life before you judge anyone!
By desertrose16
@desertrose16 (600)
United States
November 8, 2012 10:24am CST
I judge no one. I have been through things that no one should ever have to go through! I got my bone spur while being homeless! I had pepoel steal from me and try to steal. I knew from the first day I was homeless that I would do everyhing possible to get back on my feet! The only people who have any right to judge anyone is God and Jesus! Yet you have people who judge people for what they say when they have not been through what they are writing about and have dealt with on a daily basis! I have had people tell me I need to be homeless before I write about that! For the people who tell me that, LIVE IN MY SHOES THEN JUDGE ANC CRITICIZE ME! You do not have the right when you have not been through or seen or heard anything that I have! When I wrote what I did about helping those who want to get back on their feet, I would open an apartment buidling for those who sre serious so they can look for work, anyone with kids can stay there. They would be computers to print resumes and look for jobs! Criticize your self and judge yourself before you do that to someone who has been homeless and been through much more than is written about here!
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8 responses
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
8 Nov 12
I also believe that God should only be the one to judge me.. Here on earth there is a court system that has judges and juries.. But if I am not in a court room; then there shouldnt be any judgement going on.. I try to live that way..
There has been quite a few times that I have been homeless.. I was blessed with friends and family that were able to help me.. From the other discussion that you have posted.. You were not so lucky.. People need to realize a person that is down and out already have enough on their plate.. Negative words and actions only make the situation worse.. If they dont have anything nice to say they should say anything at all..
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@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
9 Nov 12
I am sorry Gifts if I offended you; I was just responding on this discussion.. I didnt know that there was something going on.. I was just stating what I knew from my own experinces.. I knew what the poster was feeling.. Now if the poster is judging others and started this discussion.. This person needs to watch what is stated; there are some of us that are extremely active on here and will catch on if statements are not within truth...
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@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
9 Nov 12
To tell the truth I have in the past made statement to either
a friend or within myself..about how someone looks...I have
certainly since the earlier part of this year, tried to hold
my thought to myself...and I am not trying even judge others
in my mind...when the thought come to my mind my first reaction
is to say "help me Lord"...make me conscience of my thoughts...
A lot of people think they have a right to talkdown to others
jut because of the way they look, which is wrong,,and we all
know that...
But once we just believe that everyone has a right to a better
way of life its not so bad,,,We should actually offer out help
at least that what I do...
I will honestly give anyon anything if I can help, because I
honesly think that one of my reason for being on this earth...
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@kearkear (963)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Nov 12
Only the heavenly father who has the right to judged us. Since we have given this what we called freewill, most of us easily judged peoples doing and say. As a simple person as much as possible I avoid myself in involving others like talking about others lives. Let us just give them what they like. It is their doings. Maybe we have this freedom to express, but we should also consider things that we cannot hurt them with our words and doings.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
You are right there. People tend to be like that at times when we see something that irritates or annoys us. Disturbing it is. They say that we mind our own business, and I agree with it. We really just need to respect and accept it. That's why i dont make any sweeping statements to my fellow, especially if it is degrading for who knows that person could save us one day. I hope I can find always the heart to never judge anyone. Thanks
@huyenhuyen1989hy (15)
• Vietnam
9 Nov 12
I think you are both right and wrong. In my opinion, everyone has the right freedom of expression. The truth is they do not have the right to judge but they have the right to comment because the mouth is yours and we can not prevent. But as you say: only God and Jesus have the right to judge, it is true and not true. As we know, the judge also have the right to judge when someone sin.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
8 Nov 12
i agree with what you say however its not that easy to stand in others situation and give a judgement, the right thing which we feel is someome else wrong thing and when we feel something is wrong then it becomes right when we be in others situation and look out of it.
