Being Pregnant
By hlfbldmom
@hlfbldmom (743)
Philippines
November 10, 2012 9:20am CST
Peeing on a stick and squeal with delight either before or after you wake feeling nauseous , boobs get big, belly balloons , water breaks bf/hubby freaks out, and off to the hospital to have a baby. How I wish being pregnant is just as easy as that but..
When I found out that I am pregnant my boyfriend is no longer just handsome and cute guy I don't mind eating with bare hands in front of him. I usually judged him more harshly and I argue with him a lot. He is always wrong in my eyes, he can't do any right at all and since he don't want to stress me out he always agree with what I've said. I think it's not healthy anymore. But he always told me it's normal and he understand it. I always get panic of small things, easily get worried and restless.
3 responses
@lizlee (208)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Congratulations! It's nice to hear that you are going to expect such a wonderful blessing one could ever have.
Also I want to commend your boyfriend for being so understanding and putting your needs and feelings first especially at a time like this.
Your body is undergoing a huge hormonal change and its adjusting itself so that you could take care of your baby while his inside you.
Don't worry, all this will pass especially when you enter your 2nd trimester. Hang in there. Just enjoy the journey, try to relax, it would be good for you and your baby :)
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Thank you Lizlee!.
He don't want to stress me out tats why , he always told me i don't need any stress while having my pregnancy.
This is my first baby so I don't have any idea at first what I am going through. But I understand now. I am more careful and tried to relax and enjoy as much as I can. But sometimes I can't avoid the emotional burst.
Thank you again!
@stevestiboy (34)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
How sweet and understanding your boyfriend is! :) Before erupting like a volcano, you have to take a deep breath and carefully think of the words you are about to say. Remember, your boyfriend might say or think that it is normal but on the other side, he's hurt. Being a mom to be is really special, so once in a while help yourself to make the situation lighter even your hormones are raging. Good luck to you and your baby! :)
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
10 Nov 12
Hi stevestiboy,
He sometimes get mad but more on understanding. Thank you for the advised. I feel kinda weird sometimes how I end up being like this. So I avoid saying things when I am on my mood swings to avoid hurting my boyfriend :))
