do you ought to choose whom to love...
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
November 11, 2012 5:09am CST
is there to be called unmatched in love? where one pair posses beauty in appearance while the other pair is less fortunate not to have it. or yet one possess wealth, intelligence or any appealing qualities that made a person lovable, attractive or such. a person may not have all appraising qualities but what is certain is that each of us have possess an inborn characteristic that could be an attractive trait for others.
so now we were being given senses specifically to see features and to feel whom to love, what am trying to emphasize is that are we in the hold whom to feel our love with or we just throw ourselves in because we simply love the person as we just felt it?
i guess both things happened depending on your preferences whom to love or have you experienced a feeling just popped in with unexplainable reasons?
what can you say about this discussion? when you engage yourself to love, do you know whom to love as you set preferences or standard to it... please share .. thanks
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@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
Actually I don't set standards when it comes to love because. Because when I set standards I guess it's not love because I only love him because he is like this and that. When we love there is no reason it's just that our heart beats for that person. It's just pooped in and you can't explain why.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
18 Feb 13
me either, if i love the person, it would be inspite or despite with what the person is having. i do not know, but i consider what i feel and that would be the basis if that person has a chance to be loved or somewhat. so i can say that, loving someone is loving someone not because he is like this and that. so thanks for the reply
@esteria (396)
• India
13 Nov 12
I think the term used to describe love is usually; falling in love or being in love. I believe that when we meet a person that has the same qualities that we are proud of, like he/she is also nature loving like me, or he/she is intelligent like me. Also when they are different where we think we are wrong. Like I like to keep my room messy then she would keep the room clean. When you find the person that fits perfectly then you would know that this person will definitely be your best friend.
Such friendship is just the first step to being in love. The second step is some bit of luck or destiny which one of my friend always says is serendipity. It is that special moment that you know you have fallen in love.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
i guess you made your point. friendship is the first level towards a relationship. but would you believe in love at first meeting? i guess it really is occurring. well, different love styles stroked to partners depends on faith and whatsoever. so thanks for joining here :)
